Katie
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quote: Originally posted by Fad
quote: Originally posted by Sam
OK seeing as most people on here post up about their lives etc. I will do the same as I am bored! 
Basically I sent my ex girlfriend (not the one in PL ) an email a few weeks ago telling her I didn't wanna stay in contact with her any more for various reasons, she never replied to it, anyway do you think I should stick to my guns and not send her an xmas card or get her anything, or am I being a bit harsh? 
I still like her (maybe even love her, I'm not sure), but whenever I spoke to her in the past she'd go on about what she does when she goes out on the piss etc. ie. telling me about blokes coming on to her and that, and I just don't really want to know about that sort of stuff - me being jealous I guess. So that's why I thought it would be best to just not keep in contact with her.
I kinda miss her still... Argh!
If she didnt reply then IMO she dont really give a fuck....if she really was cut up she would of rang you or emailed you back asking why?
Birds like that are head fucks and are best left alone...what kind of bird brags about her luck with the lads and her conquests with an ex? She's just trying to make you jealous.
Sorry to be harsh but leave well alone...i cut myself off from an ex serious g/f which was hard but fuck mine its better than wallowing in self pity thinking what if?
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Andrew
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Just give her one A card that is
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B3KYR
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do you think she will send you a card or a prezzie??
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3CorsaMeal
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get her stomach stapled
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Sam
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quote: Originally posted by Katie
I wouldn't bother sending an xmas card to any of my ex's, what's the point? She probably enjoys the fact that you keep running after her, i would stick to your words and not bother. You will get over her if you stop having contact with her, keep seeing her and you won't.. i don't mean to sound harsh, but it seems she just wants you around when it suits her.
[Edited on 25-11-2005 by Katie]
I think you've hit the nail on the head there Katie!
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Sam
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quote: Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
get her stomach stapled
Why?
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Sam
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quote: Originally posted by B3KYR
do you think she will send you a card or a prezzie??
No, because I have moved address and have not told here where I've moved to.
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3CorsaMeal
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quote: Originally posted by Sam
quote: Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
get her stomach stapled
Why?
tis fashionable these days imo
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Sam
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Can I use my stapler from work?
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3CorsaMeal
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why of course
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loo_goblin
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i am in same dilema, problem is my ex is my best mate, and she say she is in love with a new bloke.
tbh every1 is saying she is just trying to get back at me. i am fucking angry at the way she is treating me, but she says she still loves me, but it wouldnt work with us so far apart at uni
her new bloke isnt coming to visit her during xmas holidays, good thing as he wouldnt leave town in the same state he came.
but i want to buy her a xmas present, but i am trying to not see hee her and talk to her as it would b too painful.
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Ally
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Why on earth you'd want to send an ex a christmas card is beyond me sam, considering shes ignored you.
Stop being the nice guy FFS
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kz
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im in the same bag mate, sorta (i dont have any contact with my ex at all) but... imo i wouldnt send her a card, ex means ex, youre not together so whats the point
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Sam
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quote: Originally posted by Ally
Why on earth you'd want to send an ex a christmas card is beyond me sam, considering shes ignored you.
Stop being the nice guy FFS
I'm sorry.
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Corsa E-Tec
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if she sends yopu one then send it and say sorry it's late, say you been busy with other things i.e birds
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Gez G
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I wouldnt bother, I dont send Xmas cards, and even if I did, would I fcuk send my x girlf one - unless it was a letter bomb
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Sam
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quote: Originally posted by Gez G
I wouldnt bother, I dont send Xmas cards, and even if I did, would I fcuk send my x girlf one - unless it was a letter bomb

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Ally
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quote: Originally posted by Sam
quote: Originally posted by Ally
Why on earth you'd want to send an ex a christmas card is beyond me sam, considering shes ignored you.
Stop being the nice guy FFS
I'm sorry.
You know its the right thing to do sam
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Sam
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I know. Ahh well, soon it will be 2006, time to start a new chapter in my life eh!
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Gez G
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Best way to look at it Sam mate - thats the way Im dealing with mine, I just broke up with my gf.
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Sam
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Sorry to hear that mate.
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Gez G
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Shoot happens - shes being incredibly childish about it, difficult in the same group of friends.
Onwards and upwards - plenty more ladies out there - enough so we shouldnt have to share!
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Sam
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Danny P
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Sounds like me and my ex, im saying now im not gunna bother but i know i will
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Sam
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I think it does help not being in contact with her though. I haven't spoken to her in weeks and I don't feel as down as I did back then.
It's just a shame when you think you had something good and then it's gone, the only thing you are left with is memories.
Oh well, onwards and upwards as they say...
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