Charlene
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Registered: 29th Sep 04
Location: Darlington
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What if its an unplanned pregnancy and the couple dont believe in abortion?
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Dean_H
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Registered: 19th May 02
Location: Rhondda Cynon Taff
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quote:
Originally posted by Charlene
What if its an unplanned pregnancy and the couple dont believe in abortion?
If the couple dont belive in abortion AND they dont want kids they should be taking double the precaution.
Condom + Pill
Whats the chances of them getting pregnant then? 0.000001% ?
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Charlene
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Registered: 29th Sep 04
Location: Darlington
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Pill might not work and condom could spilt, there is loads of ways it might not work
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Kerry
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Registered: 5th Oct 01
Location: Norwich
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charlene your not helping 
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Dean_H
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quote:
Originally posted by Kerry
what about if one parent dies?
circumstances do change
Yea i know Kerry, somethings cant be helped.
I mentioned it earlier in the post to Katie.
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Originally posted by Dean_H
I know cirumstances change Katie, like you said your mother is a single parent. And im not having a go, its just the certain amount of families that take the piss, like i said in the first post.
[Edited on 12-11-2005 by Dean_H]
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Ian
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Registered: 28th Aug 99
Location: Liverpool
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If you plan to put it in then you planned to have children. Social sex is a myth, this is science.
My slant - family allowance is for the family. Its not called children allowance, and you don't get it to directly benefit the child. The family unit has many outgoings and things totally unrelated to the child can still benefit them. There are many examples which you might say its not for the child and therefore the parent shouldn't have it but the parents wellfare does directly affect the child so I would say family income is simply that.
Where I don't agree with family benefits is where the family income is spent in a way that directly hinders the children, like spending on non-essential things before the children get to see it.
Examples include that huge family living in the council house who have been in the press recently. Apparently - and I may be going on bad information here - but they are no stranger to foreign holidays and have a big TV. Personally I would have been putting that money towards accomodation for at least one of the children in the most appropriate university for their chosen career. The government wants 50% in higher education, I'm sure out of a family that big there is at least one kid could have a go - but where is the money to send them? Spent on flights to Corfu.
Even if they don't go - any saving will help them in their own houses in the future - assuming they intend to buy and not get them for free.
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vibrio
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Registered: 28th Feb 01
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quote:
Originally posted by Dean_H
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Originally posted by vibrio
IMHO your a tit
Fuck off, its my opinion.
Ive been reading these forums for 3 years, AND you are the biggest cock ive ever met. Have a shave u ugly fucker
And if you are not going to reply to my post correctly by saying why you think my opinion is wrong. DO NOT answer to any of my posts on the forum. A forum is used to discuss many things and if all you can do is abuse many users if you dont agree, well i dont know why your still here.
[Edited on 12-11-2005 by Dean_H]
maybe when you have a child and you see how much money you loose by having a child then maybe you'll understand.
6 months of maternity leave is not paid at your full wage unless your employer is nice. you get 90% of your wage for the first 6 weeks then 102.80 for the remaining 20. if you take more leave it is unpaid. then when you go back to work you either pay a nursery to look after your child while you work (costs a fucking bomb), work part time get less money and still have to pay out for care or be very lucky like me and have your inlaws look after your son while you work. so not only do you take a reduction in pay but you have to pay out more because you have someone extra to cloth and feed. so getting a bit extra off the goverment goes towards the loss you take by having a child. most people will get child benifit @ £17 a week. there are two other kind of credits Child Tax Credit and Working Tax Credit. we get child tax credit of £936 for a combined income of £36k we do not quality working tax credit. however unlike your opinion mine is based on pure fact so unless your in the situation of having a child and understanding how difficult it is to bring them up when your on a low income I want you to STFU on this subject
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Dean_H
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Registered: 19th May 02
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So before you had the boy, i expect you planned and saved a bit to get you through this rough 3 years untill he goes to school. Or didnt you just realise how much it cost to raise a kid in the first couple years of its life
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vibrio
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quote:
Originally posted by Dean_H
So before you had the boy, i expect you planned and saved a bit to get you through this rough 3 years untill he goes to school. Or didnt you just realise how much it cost to raise a kid in the first couple years of its life
no never saved anymoney but I knew how much it would cost
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stuartmitchell
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Registered: 24th Apr 04
Location: Kirkliston, Edinburgh
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quote:
Originally posted by Dean_H
quote:
Originally posted by vibrio
IMHO your a tit
Fuck off, its my opinion.
Ive been reading these forums for 3 years, AND you are the biggest cock ive ever met. Have a shave u ugly fucker
And if you are not going to reply to my post correctly by saying why you think my opinion is wrong. DO NOT answer to any of my posts on the forum. A forum is used to discuss many things and if all you can do is abuse many users if you dont agree, well i dont know why your still here.
[Edited on 12-11-2005 by Dean_H]
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