Antz
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I think you should play it as SetH said...
thing is, last time I posted up an adivce thread alot of people told me to stay away from my ex... I ignored them and things are going VERY well for us now... so you just gotta do what you feel is best!
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Sam
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Kind of gone past the point of no return with my ex. I've been with her on & off for about 3 years, she's the only person I ever really loved so hence bit hard trying to get over her etc. but I want to move on because I'm sick of feeling down about the whole thing all the time and wanna share my life with someone again.
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Antz
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In that case Sam you need to go out there and get someone, the faster you find someone else the easier it will be, you will start to realise that you can have just as much fun and good times with any girl as long as she is the right one for you... just try not to open your heart up to them unless you are 110% sure it's the right thing to do.
It'll be hard I'm sure, but don't put your life on hold just cos you broke up, you need t live!
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Sam
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Very true mate!
How did you get on with things with your ex or whatever by the way?
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Antz
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Very well, we met up and went shopping, went for a walk, talked, had lunch... went VERY well... infact, so well I'm expecting her at 11 pm tonight 
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Sam
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Nice one mate! 
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15 mins mate  good work
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Antz
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She just left... still not back with her yet, but there was plenty of physical contact, kissing, touching, holding hands, rubbing of legs... I'm happy again
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U2U sent
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Sam
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U2U Replied!
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not read all the posts mate but from what i heard she wants your dingalong! go for it!
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Originally posted by Sam
There's a girl I know we are really good friends, she is seeing someone (so she tells me) for the past 4 weeks, we do a lot of stuff together me and her you know usual mate things going drinking, cinema, blah blah etc. anyway she phones me up at 1am this morning, she's out on the piss with her mates, phones me to say "I know I'm really drunk but I really want to be with you and not them right now.."
So anyways I go pick her up and bring her back to my house  we sit watching TV talking and shit till about 3.45am, she's getting quite close if you get me, I say to her does she wanna sleep on the couch or in my bed and I'll sleep on the couch, she's like "is it alright if I sleep next to you in bed?" I'm like OK.
Nothing happened like  , but she was like virtually stuck on me in bed all night, I'm thinking if she's going out with some bloke doesn't she wanna be with him instead? 
I drove her home this morning and she said text me and we can do something later after shower/sleep etc.
I ain't very good at reading signals from birds, what do you lot think? We haven't even snogged or anything just kinda cuddled each other a lot last night...
I like her as a mate, maybe more I'm not sure, if I'm honest I'm not really over my ex and so haven't bothered with birds since then... 
I think she was drunk and wanted some sam warmth. see how she is when she is not drunk.
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Sam
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Well she is a little like that when she's sober just not as forward if that makes sense?
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Tom
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Sam you're a gentleman, i'd be a bit wary of her though she sounds a little what's the word....like she wants what she shouldn't Keep her at arms length you don't want anything back firing on you, especially if you want to stay friends with her and tbh if you aren't that confident with girls cos' of your ex if you do anything with this girl and she rejects you afterwards it isn't going to do you any good. I admit I am less of a man and would have probably sausaged her  good on you, just go and find a nice single bird it isn't that hard.
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Sam you're a gentleman, i'd be a bit wary of her though she sounds a little what's the word....like she wants what she shouldn't Keep her at arms length you don't want anything back firing on you, especially if you want to stay friends with her and tbh if you aren't that confident with girls cos' of your ex if you do anything with this girl and she rejects you afterwards it isn't going to do you any good. I admit I am less of a man and would have probably sausaged her good on you, just go and find a nice single bird it isn't that hard.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sam
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Cheers Tom.
Yeah I'm just gonna 'play it cool' - I guess if it's meant to happen it'll happen, just gotta play the waiting game!
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Tom
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yes defo
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i was in exactly same situ, played it cool as mates for 5motnhs then she asked me out 5days before Xmas. 
let her make the moves, especially if shes 'with' someone
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
Sam you're a gentleman, i'd be a bit wary of her though she sounds a little what's the word....like she wants what she shouldn't Keep her at arms length you don't want anything back firing on you, especially if you want to stay friends with her and tbh if you aren't that confident with girls cos' of your ex if you do anything with this girl and she rejects you afterwards it isn't going to do you any good. I admit I am less of a man and would have probably sausaged her good on you, just go and find a nice single bird it isn't that hard.
 sound advice thomas
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I know if that was me i'd of banged her
Most deffo... She was Drunk, probably horny and wanted some sam love. You could of made a move on her and if she was like 'What the fuck are you doing', just turn over in bed and convince her she must of had a drunken dream in the morning
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Sam
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"Calm down dear, it was only a dream!"
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Sam
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Oh well she told me tonight she didn't like me 'in that way'...
Would have been nice if she was honest with me about this before instead of giving confusing signals etc. 
Strangely I don't feel gutted about her saying this?
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the Llama will always be there for you
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