Sandsy
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Registered: 29th Oct 04
Location: Tilney All Saints Drives: V6 Corsa
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explain mate lol
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Jamie
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Registered: 1st Apr 02
Location: Aberdeen
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On a serious note
My girlfriends dad doenst like me, but two years on it doesnt bother me
He gets his wise cracks from saying stuff about my car/football team etc but I just laugh it off then stare at him
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Ally
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Registered: 2nd Jul 03
Location: Pontypool Drives: a Skoda
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You are too young to be getting yourself in a mess over it. Leave it be for a week or so, and if things still are shit then go and speak to him, and ask him why he doesnt approve.
It may be that he doesnt know you well enough, dont move in together you are too young. Living together is completely different to actually being together and living seperatly ... trust me I've lived with my boyfriend for well over a year now and its been quite hard.
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Carly
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Registered: 21st Aug 03
Location: sheffield
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I dont blame him if you had a messy break up before. He's probably seen her get upset over you once already and doesn't want it to happen again.
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Pablo
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Registered: 3rd Feb 03
Location: Milton Keynes
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quote:
Originally posted by J-Me
On a serious note
My girlfriends dad doenst like me, but two years on it doesnt bother me
He gets his wise cracks from saying stuff about my car/football team etc but I just laugh it off then stare at him
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--Dave--
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Registered: 17th Feb 04
Location: Essssseeeeex Drives: Black Supra TT
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if you don't mind me asking, why is it he doesn't like you? Did you to something in your previous relationship with her to piss him off or something?
Nail his wife?
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gianluigi
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Registered: 9th Mar 05
Location: Ipswich, Suffolk
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one day u'll understand why the dad is acting like this mate   
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Lynny
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Registered: 3rd Jan 03
Location: oop north! Where people talk properly
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i had the same, by dad stopped me seeing my lad (basically coz of the death threats etc i got ) but give him time and he'll accept it, my boyfriend has now proven himself and is welcome in my house, even sits and talks to me dad for ages, dont worry about it
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by gianluigi
one day u'll understand why the dad is acting like this mate
exactly, iv realised this in my relationship, hes lookin out for his daughter
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richard_syko
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Registered: 17th Dec 03
Location: Newport, Wales
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Originally posted by --Dave--
Nail his wife?
Pics on completion. 
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Mark Petty
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Registered: 26th Jul 01
Location: Bournemouth Drives: Suzuki gsf600
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quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
i had the same, by dad stopped me seeing my lad (basically coz of the death threats etc i got ) but give him time and he'll accept it, my boyfriend has now proven himself and is welcome in my house, even sits and talks to me dad for ages, dont worry about it
Death threats  thats nice of your boyfriend 
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Lynny
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Registered: 3rd Jan 03
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quote:
Originally posted by Mark Petty
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Originally posted by Lynny
i had the same, by dad stopped me seeing my lad (basically coz of the death threats etc i got ) but give him time and he'll accept it, my boyfriend has now proven himself and is welcome in my house, even sits and talks to me dad for ages, dont worry about it
Death threats thats nice of your boyfriend
it was worse than that but we went through a BAD stage its all sorted now and we're more loved up than ever, if anything its made us closer
its really long story what happened, and no i cant forgive and forget that easily, but we're past it all now. also he knows that if he lays a finger on me now, my dad wil butcher him
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Mark Petty
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Registered: 26th Jul 01
Location: Bournemouth Drives: Suzuki gsf600
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quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
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Originally posted by Mark Petty
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Originally posted by Lynny
i had the same, by dad stopped me seeing my lad (basically coz of the death threats etc i got ) but give him time and he'll accept it, my boyfriend has now proven himself and is welcome in my house, even sits and talks to me dad for ages, dont worry about it
Death threats thats nice of your boyfriend
it was worse than that but we went through a BAD stage its all sorted now and we're more loved up than ever, if anything its made us closer
its really long story what happened, and no i cant forgive and forget that easily, but we're past it all now. also he knows that if he lays a finger on me now, my dad wil butcher him
Fairplay
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Tom
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Location: Wirral, Merseyside
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The dad has a right to be annoyed at his daughter being back with you if it was messy and he helped her when you last broke up. He also needs to understand it's her life, and maybe step back a bit if he doesn't then put him straight but you are only 17 and maybe he doesn't realise that you care about her as much as you've said
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