CorsaLad16v
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i'm up for going out soon, local peeps get in touvh n i'll see what'll happen. i'm fairly upset but happy at the same time
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Je11ybubb1es
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what the story behind the breakup??
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mav
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Originally posted by CorsaLad16v
i'm up for going out soon, local peeps get in touvh n i'll see what'll happen. i'm fairly upset but happy at the same time
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CorsaLad16v
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 hope ur new year is better than mine
[Edited on 09-01-2005 by CorsaLad16v]
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mav
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you'll get over it dude..
was it her or you or mutual
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Je11ybubb1es
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its never mutual
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mav
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well i dunno can be at times..............
but your probably right actually
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Je11ybubb1es
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you find that the only time people say it was mutual is when they themselves have been dumped and dont want everyone knowing. even if its not working out it's always one person that makes the move, the other would normally be happy to ride it out see if they can pull through it
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CorsaLad16v
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she wanted to call the shots, 2 weeks break, no contact, dont want that, i love her she just wanted to be friends' n i aint willing to do that, i love her as a girlfriend, its harsh but its how i feel. if she changes her mind then yea, i may be a fool but i'd have her back, but as soon as i feel like she doesn't wanna no then... pfft. not a chance!
its hard to explain, we've been on a break since wednesday, n 2nite was my aunties birthday, she's been booked in so she wanted to come, but i've toughened up n asked her where i stand (coz she wanted no contact, i can't live for 2 week not knowing if i have a girlfriend or not!) so 2nite she's sed she wants to be friends n i aint willing to do that as its not what i want from us. i love her n respect her but i've turned the tables onto her, i'm a bloke n i shudn't be treat like shit which i have been.
fuck it anyway. i'm being serious when i sed who wants to go out, coz i've gave up most of my mates for her n 4 her to turn round n say what she's said then its broke my heart.
i need all the friends i can have 2 help me thru this!! its so hard!
but kinda  weird feeling
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mav
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Yeah your probably right
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Je11ybubb1es
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i'd come out with you, but i dont know my way to sheffield
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CorsaLad16v
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M1. junction 31
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Dave1682
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Mate, i don't wanna get too heavy and deep with the whole relationship thing, but if she wants a 2week break then do it. After the 2 week period she may realise how much you really mean to her, and she may miss you loads, and want to carry on. If she doesn't fair enough, you have to move on. It's hard but break-ups are, simple as. In time you'll get over it. Just try to keep you chin up mate.
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Je11ybubb1es
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i'm on m1 j14 i think
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CorsaLad16v
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quote:
Originally posted by Dave1682
Mate, i don't wanna get too heavy and deep with the whole relationship thing, but if she wants a 2week break then do it. After the 2 week period she may realise how much you really mean to her, and she may miss you loads, and want to carry on. If she doesn't fair enough, you have to move on. It's hard but break-ups are, simple as. In time you'll get over it. Just try to keep you chin up mate.
she sed when she said she wanted a 2 week break: " in 2 weeks, u never no u might just wanna be friends" which i knew straight away is what she'd got her heart set on. balls in her court now mate
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Dave1682
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fair one
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CorsaLad16v
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i've already got plenty of offers  its been like... 2 hours n i've had enog offers to last me 3 weeks
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Dave1682
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Then what are you upset then for son? You got plenty of hoes wanting some love, spread it about
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CorsaLad16v
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i aint upset as much as i wud av been 3 days ago, its too hard to explain!
i'm gonna get some loving soon
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Dave1682
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Good lad, that's the spirit. 
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shawboy
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i agree, what you moaning for.
yes you may love her and you will want her back, but us men have neads and at least you can fufill them neads.
i talked to my ex today and was upset when she said she had founf someone else, but i said good luck to her and i hope it works out, i love her to bits but i respect her decision and said i would always be there for her which i will be, all cause i love her.
just give it time mate, you never know.
you might get back togther orr you might be better has friends, only time will tell.
[Edited on 09-01-2005 by shawboy]
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CorsaLad16v
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sigh
what do i do?
i miss her n want to fone her n try n sort things out, but thing thats stoppin me is she said what she wants from us n i've said my part, i text her last nite saying
"if u change ur mind ring me, i love u and always will x x"
i don't know what to do for the best
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purple_corsa_gls
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leave it. balls in her court. go and have a wank. you'll feel better for it
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Skipz
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Originally posted by purple_corsa_gls
leave it. balls in her court. go and have a wank. you'll feel better for it
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leeshez
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No thanks i don,t like second hand goods
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