Ian
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No its entirely true Rob.
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Originally posted by lynny_sxi
last thing on my mind
Conscious or Subconscious?
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CorsAsh
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when you've been with someone for a while, your hormones work in a different way, gearing you up to make a home and stick with the same person rather than spread the proverbial seed.
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Lynny
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not entirely sure ian. yeah settling down sounds good to me, even at my age, not the whole morgage thing etc maybe, but being in safe, stable relationship. but i want to wait a while before considering kids, want nice house, life, holidays etc. im no way near ready the point of raising kids. alot of my mates are desperate to have their own kids, many already have, tbh if i fell pregnant now, i couldnt kee it, even if there wasnt the distance between nath and i
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Robin
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quote:
Originally posted by lynny_sxi
yeah settling down sounds good to me, even at my age..... but being in safe, stable relationship.
exactly how i feel
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Lynny
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nath and i have been together 6-7monh now, but coz we're 250 miles apart it doesnt feel as safe and stable as a 'normal' relationship, alot more strain for both of us. long term benefits are better though!
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Eck
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Its been fun listening to people pour there hearts out but I must now go to the land of nod. 
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CorsAsh
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Say hi to your mum for me eck, she's a sexy lady.
night mate
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Robin
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i'm off now too
good thread though, on the most part.
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LeeM
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got to page 5 and give up, but in my last job i met a gorgeous girl who everyone fancied and was just myself with her, one day i just thought fuck it and asked her out, got the response of "i thought u were never gonna bloody ask" admitedly it went tits up but i learned from it and got over it
started a new job few weeks ago and didnt waste much time, met someone else within a week or so i knew i liked her and asked her out, we're goin on a picnic on wednesday 
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by lynny_sxi
im no way near ready the point of raising kids
Quite, but you're thinking there about logistical, real issues. I'm talking about the intrinsic requirement of the race, which is to have strong children. Everything stems from that.
Its a bit of a mean trick, but if you can tick those boxes while you're on the pull, you can't fail. Doesn't work on young birds though, so bear that in mind if you think your work is done 
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Adam-D
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just read it all
holy f**kin shit
thanks for all the replies
i agree with quite a lot of what is said
confidence, im very confident at times and im a main sales specialist and fitter so you have to be, but 1 hit or 1 bad word against me and im screwed for the day 
as for improving myself i make a effort then it sorta falls apart after a week,
*trying to think what else was said *
as for looking t my life and seeing whats holding me back. i can see what it is. gonna be tricky to change, might look for a new job and that will help. as moving out of my house is gonna be probably the only way.
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Adam-D
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and paul, you are the essay king, undisputed how you can write all that and not take a second to think is unreal
and thats not a bad thing, i did read it all
cheers 
and cheers to everyone else hope this helps other ppl not just me.
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Adam-D
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ooo and while its still in my head.
1 problem i know of. its good being confident. but i usually end up talking bollocks. or making a statement in a convo which i havent thought throu and then i look like a twat
and you can gaurantee ill do it. every time.
ill say it then think why did i say that.
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Andrew
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Adam, it will happen when you least expect it.
Me and one of my friends just got together who i've know for about 6 months now. Both of us were telling others it will never happen and we are just friends.
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Jake
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quote:
Originally posted by robmarriott
quote:
Originally posted by lynny_sxi
rob - when you were 17? tbf most your life ahead of you.....
yeah, i was 17, split up when i was 18 (about august i think) and not had any luck since
so beat that Adam and Jake
easily beat that.
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ClaireF
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i have being single for about a month and a half and i hate it, but all of a sudden a guy i was getting close to has started to txct and ring me again, just wants to mess me around again i think. Cos i belieeve anything it will most proberly happen. even thought i know i would not be able to trust him
[Edited on 31-07-2006 by ClaireF]
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JadeM
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Originally posted by JadeM
Its true man, when I started talking to Jade we waited like 3 months before we finally met, fecking glad we did now becauase she's the best thing thats ever happened to me & I love her to bits
And after 3 months of gabbing non-stop, when we did finally pluck up the courage to meet up, I hardly spoke 2 words all night I was a nervous wreck!!! Luckily for me it didn't put Colin off, and we're still together ten and a half months later
Personally I don't like a guy to be over confident to start with, a bit of shyness isn't a bad thing. There's nothing more off putting on a first date than an over confident cocky b@stard IMO.
Jade x.
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Ally
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I met Richie on here, nearly 3 years ago
Be yourself Adam, and it will happen when you least expect it
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LeeM
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quote:
Originally posted by Adam-D
ooo and while its still in my head.
1 problem i know of. its good being confident. but i usually end up talking bollocks. or making a statement in a convo which i havent thought throu and then i look like a twat
and you can gaurantee ill do it. every time.
ill say it then think why did i say that.
try make a joke out of it and show u have a sense of humour, if u can laugh at ureself it shows u dont take ureself too seriously!
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DaNnY_LaD
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quote:
Originally posted by lee_wee
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Originally posted by Adam-D
ooo and while its still in my head.
1 problem i know of. its good being confident. but i usually end up talking bollocks. or making a statement in a convo which i havent thought throu and then i look like a twat
and you can gaurantee ill do it. every time.
ill say it then think why did i say that.
try make a joke out of it and show u have a sense of humour, if u can laugh at ureself it shows u dont take ureself too seriously!
Yup i tottaly agree on that..
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Paul_J
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quote:
Originally posted by lee_wee
quote:
Originally posted by Adam-D
ooo and while its still in my head.
1 problem i know of. its good being confident. but i usually end up talking bollocks. or making a statement in a convo which i havent thought throu and then i look like a twat
and you can gaurantee ill do it. every time.
ill say it then think why did i say that.
try make a joke out of it and show u have a sense of humour, if u can laugh at ureself it shows u dont take ureself too seriously!
Avoid the awkward silence!
nothing worse than saying something stupid, or saying something that was meant to be funny but wasn't - and she just goes 'heh' and then silence... 
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mark_d
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ive just read all of thsi thread. two words for it (not one)....fuckin gay
stop having lack of confidence. go out, meet a girl and say whatever comes out your mouth. worse that will happen is shel say no,nothing lost in that and then move on and find someone else. it doesnt matter if you dont have the same interests. you'l learn to like eachothers hobbies and if not, its good to spend time away from eachother
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Jake
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quote:
Originally posted by mark_d
ive just read all of thsi thread. two words for it (not one)....fuckin gay
do you have a weakness?
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mark_d
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quote:
Originally posted by jake
quote:
Originally posted by mark_d
ive just read all of thsi thread. two words for it (not one)....fuckin gay
do you have a weakness?
yes, managing to put letters in order to spell words
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Adam-D
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laughing at myself, that i can do. i know when ive done it. and can make a joke out of it. or ill just end up digging a deeper hole. so admit that ive said sommit daft and carry on
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