Eck
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That, from time to time, will be minding my own business... And something will remind me of my ex, and it'll tie me up in knots? It sucks, I tell thee
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Ian
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Depends how long ago and the circumstances surrounding the split. If it was recent or difficult then yes, only natural that you will reminisce. If it was longer ago then you may need a proper plan to get over it. It shouldn't last forever.
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Matt H
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I get this too, then my mind starts to wander
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Eck
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quote: Originally posted by Ian
Depends how long ago and the circumstances surrounding the split. If it was recent or difficult then yes, only natural that you will reminisce. If it was longer ago then you may need a proper plan to get over it. It shouldn't last forever.
Circumstances were... I quite simply never showed how much I cared often enough. By the time I realised what was going on, and did my damndest to change things... T'was too late. I'd give anything to go back and change the last few weeks of our relationship, but it happens But that's not what hurts me the most...It's the little random things that someone will say that reminds me! That's the point of this thread. To see if anyone else gets these feelings? Or if it's just me
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Eck
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quote: Originally posted by Matt H
I get this too, then my mind starts to wander
Yeah, and it leads to worse thoughts It sucks really!
This is all quite simply from a pic I saw of my ex that I took. It brought back so many memories that have hit HARD.

[Edited on 05-03-2008 by Eckmcmann]
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willay
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everyone is weak and retarded just like you eck, you just have to get over yourself and move on. Bang someone new.
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JonnyJ
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For the first time ever Eck i understand you
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Fonz
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totally know what your saying.
could be a song, or a point of view someone has, or some random item on a Tesco shelf that caused a laugh when were together!
the one i get most often is seeing a plug switched on but nothing pluged in. she was by no means OCD but this drove her potty.....makes me everytime i see it as i am reminded how desperate she would be to switch it off.....at the same time its cos its doesnt happen anymore
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lex2005
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im the same with it aswell mate were only human after all.
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Aaron
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Yup, this happens to me quite often. I find that writing it all down help me
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Shelly
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Thinking of mine makes me feel physically sick.
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All Torque
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Same here Shelly  
Eck, you just keep 'losing the game'. Why do you even have that pic still?
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Shelly
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I think I had a lucky escape with mine. He'll get what he deserves one day. I believe in what goes around comes around.
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ClaireF
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when i have an argument with the ex ova txt i end up missing him
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Shelly
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If your heart is happy, you are happy.
Willay is right, you need someone new to focus your attention on. Even if it's just a little crush on someone or someone you've liked for ages. That's what I did, and it has helped me loads.
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willay
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or develop an obsession with someone who has no idea you exist
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ClaireF
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my ex was told i was seeing someone so other day he started texting me asking me and asking questions. Even if i was seeing someone i would like to know why this person thought it be good to let my ex know.
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BigSte
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quote: Originally posted by Shelly
I think I had a lucky escape with mine. He'll get what he deserves one day. I believe in what goes around comes around.
Wasn't he that fat ugly cunt that used to come on here?
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MikeD
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quote: Originally posted by BigSte
quote: Originally posted by Shelly
I think I had a lucky escape with mine. He'll get what he deserves one day. I believe in what goes around comes around.
Wasn't he that fat ugly cunt that used to come on here?
Dont hold back!!
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Shelly
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quote: Originally posted by willay
or develop an obsession with someone who has no idea you exist
this sounds like fun...
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willay
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quote: Originally posted by Shelly
quote: Originally posted by willay
or develop an obsession with someone who has no idea you exist
this sounds like fun...
I imagine so
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Shelly
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quote: Originally posted by BigSte
quote: Originally posted by Shelly
I think I had a lucky escape with mine. He'll get what he deserves one day. I believe in what goes around comes around.
Wasn't he that fat ugly cunt that used to come on here?
fat... hmm, ugly... definately, cunt... the biggest one to ever live... 
but he didn't come on here
he used to make me laugh, moisturising and trying to look after himself, was like polishing a turd tbh...
stupid rose tinted glasses.... why do I do it?!
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willay
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wow let it out shelly
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Shelly
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why does c u n t change to badger?!
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BigSte
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just stick a in the middle of the word and it lets you say what you want
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