richardworrall
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Righto, the situation is:
We have some auditors in for this week, one of them is the most stunning girl ive ever seen, perfect in every way possible. She did last years audit as well so know her a little bit.
She had a blokey last year but not sure about now.
Hows the best way to approach her without confronting her in front of either my workmates or hers and causing embarrassment. Bit tricky to get time alone with her but will have to pull paperwork for her etc.
Is it too sleazy just leaving a note on her car?
I dread to think what you lot are gonna say but fire away 
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AndyKent
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Ask her into the cupboard to help you audit something?  
Don't leave a note on her car, looks like a stalker.
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Toby
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shock horro nome PL relationship thread!! pay your 12.50 and you will have all the advice you need
[Edited on 28-01-2008 by CorsaB4ever]
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richardworrall
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anyone?
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Steve
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dont think you have much of a chance in that situation really, she'l be off guard etc
id try and get her email and email her
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andy1868
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if you want a stupid answer listen to my following reply
slip her one in the toilets at work
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andy1868
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if you want a sensible reply read the following reply
catch her on your way out of work, theres less likely to be people about, ask her if she wants to go for a drink etc at the bar down the road, whatever.
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Joe
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quote:
Originally posted by andy1868
if you want a stupid answer listen to my following reply
slip her one in the toilets at work
This usually works for the best if the other party gives consent.
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TomWilly
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Im saying, try and get her on her own or think of someting you might need to ask her, say is there a number i could use to contact you? or e mail address?
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andy1868
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that may be true joe, but isn't always necessary
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Jodi_the_g
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Arrange a night out with some work people and then say to her a few of us are going out tonight you fancy coming.
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AndyKent
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Rohypnol?
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Joe
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Good of them to give you internet access in there, its true when they say prison has become easy.
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andy1868
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i'm using the unsecured wireless network of my neighbours joe, they own some sort of car garage in this shithole called hesketh bank. don't know if you know it, being from the area. tend to sell alot of vauxhalls 
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Joe
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Your welcome to it, Virgin ADSL is wank
Anyway, someone help the guy out.
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C2RL R
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you need to steer conversation in that direction first. if you just blurt something out in the corridor she'll not be expecting it so will probably say no.
two ways to approach it really. either be very confident and just tell her she's stunning and you dont want to miss the opportunity to take her out since she's only there for a week.
otherwise, just jokingly suggest that you take her out and then you can guage her reaction. if its negative then you wont feal bad as you've not actually asked her out so you've not been turned down.
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andy1868
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i did, with my second answer at least
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baza31
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just say you know someone who wants some auditing doing and does she do any work on side. Then get her number and text her saying you were lying but if she fancies a drink.
personally id say stay away, i wouldnt wish a relationship on anyone
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TomWilly
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quote:
Originally posted by baza31
just say you know someone who wants some auditing doing and does she do any work on side. Then get her number and text her saying you were lying but if she fancies a drink.
personally id say stay away, i wouldnt wish a relationship on anyone
here here
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andy1868
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jodi seemed to have the right idea, just make sure you remember to invite other people on the work night out or you'll look like a total stalker
on the other hand, if no-one turns up you'll get some time alone with her. tough one that
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Tom
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FPMSL typical replies
I wouldn't just ask her outright to be honest, could be completely akward, shock horror steve has right idea imo
Get her email address and worm your way in, don't make a big deal out of it though. Then just be friendly and talk about her lots imo
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richardworrall
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quote:
Originally posted by C2RL R
you need to steer conversation in that direction first. if you just blurt something out in the corridor she'll not be expecting it so will probably say no.
two ways to approach it really. either be very confident and just tell her she's stunning and you dont want to miss the opportunity to take her out since she's only there for a week.
otherwise, just jokingly suggest that you take her out and then you can guage her reaction. if its negative then you wont feal bad as you've not actually asked her out so you've not been turned down.
best suggestion so far, never been really confident with girls but this one is out of this world. 
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Tom
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Yeah C2RL's works aswell (much better )
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baza31
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you could just ask, ive done it before when i was doing somework in a sunbed shop, bird was gorgeous so i just asked , she said yes and gave it me. But she text me later saying she was a lesbian , i said to give me a shout if they need a 3rd hand...never heard anything again
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C2RL R
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cant go wrong doing that. birds never want to hear about you. little compliments are a good way to go. nothing that makes her think that you stare at her all the time though.
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