cossie_corsa
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i've recently came back from a not so good holiday with my gf of 9 months. my mates of nearly 20 years have asked me to go away with them for 2 weeks to to all the disney parks. i've also offered a further 2 weeks with her for wherever she'd like to go. she's fcuking fuming. apparantly its disrespectful and no guy in a relationship should go away with his mates regardless of goin away with her the same year, whenever she wants.
am i being a twat?? i'm about to turn 24 next week so i'm not even that old to give up goin away with the lads. she uses cosmo to bitch about me so i though i'd ask the guys and gals here for their valued opinions. i'd like to hear either way, i can take the criticism
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Dom
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so she's moaning because you want to go on hols with your mates? WTF?! Doesn't see have any mates that she wants to go hols with? Does she have friends period? 
Im confused why she thinks you going away with the lads is disrespectful? I can see why she maybe a bit concerned, but it certainly isn't disrespectful. Infact, it would be more disrespectful to tell your mates you cant go because your missus told you so.
If i was in your shoes, i would tell her to kindly GTF and go on hols with your mates - you probably wont have a girlfriend when you get back, but atleast you'll have had a good 2 week holiday 
[Edited on 14-08-2007 by Dom]
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Eck
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You're not being a twat, she is  Tell her you have taken her away on holiday, now it's some lads' banter time. If she throws an ultimatum your way, throw a punch hers
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marklaruk
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tell her instead of goin away with ur lad mates u will go away with ur lass mates
and fuck them wide
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bree
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you are NOT bein a twat !!! you should go with your mates on hols and if she doesn't like it then maybe you should seriously consider finding another gf who deserves you!
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Robin
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Did you post this before? I seem to remember someone making a Cosmo joke back then 
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All Torque
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quote:
Originally posted by marklaruk
tell her instead of goin away with ur lad mates u will go away with ur lass mates
and fuck them wide
You're not being a twat mate, shes being spoilt and unreasonable.
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Ally
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Tim you are no way being a twat! If you want to go away with the boys then go, she may be being a little insecure but at the end of the day you are going to the disney parks (jealous btw ) and offering to take her away again, pffft would of swung it for most women!
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Shane
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knock her the fuck out
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Dean_W
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quote:
Originally posted by Dom
Infact, it would be more disrespectful to tell your mates you cant go because your missus told you so.
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IvIarkgraham
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kick her in the cunt
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willay
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Shes probably worried that it would turn into a lads holiday in the sense that you will start dipping your wick into ladies while abroad cause your mates are at it.
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andy1868
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as said, shes being unreasonable, you're going to Disney FFS, its not like you're going to Bangkok or Amsterdam or somewhere. that doesn't mean to say you can't get into trouble at disney land
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Tom
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Don't understand the sentance with cosmo contained in it
I would say the fact it's disney land should make her less concerned than if it was a typical lads package jobby, although i'd still be miffed if I got called disrespectful for wanting to go away with my mates . Have you given her reason to doubt you being faithful etc?! If not, infact even if you have, I would sit her down and tell her the way she's reacted is totally unreasonable and that you aren't 18 and are both now adults etc so should have learnt the meaning of trust by now
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Rebecca
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To be honest shes out of order.
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xcore
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Good mates are alot harder to find then a gf tbh.
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Jamie
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quote:
Originally posted by xcore
Good mates are alot harder to find then a gf tbh.
Shes being the twat mate
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Edd
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she sounds insecure talk to her not a fucking forum
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xcore
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quote:
Originally posted by Jamie
quote:
Originally posted by xcore
Good mates are alot harder to find then a gf tbh.
Shes being the twat mate
Yea so stick with ur mates.
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danielleG
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maybe you approached it wrong, you should of told her you were going, not ask her!
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foxyk8t
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From a girls point of view i think she is being OTT if you have a good relationship she wouldn't have a problem and tell you to enjoy yourself, if you go and she throws the toys out the pram then you need to ask yourself is it really worth the hassle live your life don't have any regrets (within reason) and enjoy it 
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C2RL R
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me and a few mates are going to Las Vegas in December (hopefully to watch Hatton) and out of 8 of us 3 are single. The other 5 have been granted permission to go by their wives/girlfriends. Not that they need permission but you know what i mean.
It seems that she is being unfair tbh. She has only been with you 9 months and that to me is not long enough for her to make any demands. I'd still go with the lads if i were you.
What if you'd booked this holiday before you started seeing her? would she make you cancel it?
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poole
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shes being a complete wanker! i've got a group of about 10mates who i've known since i was at school and if a girl tried to stop me seeing them i'm afraid she'd be gone.
[Edited on 14-08-2007 by poole]
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Nath
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
Don't understand the sentance with cosmo contained in it
nor me, whats the story there??
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Cosmo
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quote:
Originally posted by cossie_corsa
she uses cosmo to bitch about me so i though i'd ask the guys and gals here for their valued opinions. i'd like to hear either way, i can take the criticism
If you could take the criticism then she wouldnt come running to me.
She is fed up that you continually fail to satify her in the bedroom, something about your manhood being too small when you do actually manage to get it up but I didnt want her to go into details. Hence why she gets annoyed that you think its fine to go swanning about with your mates on these holidays when you refuse to accept your problems with her and sort them out.
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