SetH
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Anyone ever feel that they are not suited to a relationship, ie not in the right frame of mind or have the right personality/behavioural traits & lifestyle to be able to have a long term relationship?
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Jambo
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are you a fucking woman? 
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Aaron
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Yes, i'm like this.
When i sit and think about it, i dont think i would have the patience to adapt my life style to suit anyone else's.
I'm at a stage in my life where i'm only thinking of myself, that sounds a bit selfish but....so what.
The only way i'll get a long term gf any time soon is if she likes me exactly the way i am now
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SetH
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No, but if i was id be a slag and get as much cock as possible.
Seriously though after every relationship fucking up and my current one going that way im starting to think that its not a case of being with the wrong girls more a case of im just not cut out for it tbh.
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MatthewR
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maybe its coz ur SO used to being with girllfriend you've forgot what its like to be on ya own - depends on what sort of person you are. After 3.5 year relationship when me n my ex split up it was good for a few months but i hate being single!! sure its good up town etc when u can go on the pull but id much rather go home to someone
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SetH
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I was single for nearly all of last year, and tbh i fcuking hated it. Going out clubbing try to chat to up themselves girls and footballer wannabe twats got a bit tiresome.
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MatthewR
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There you go fella
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mattk
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yeah im sometimes not "in the mood" I cant remember what single life is like and sometimes my mind seems to wander
Especially round town,
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Brett
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quote:
Originally posted by SetH
I was single for nearly all of last year, and tbh i fcuking hated it. Going out clubbing try to chat to up themselves girls and footballer wannabe twats got a bit tiresome.
I remember you takin the piss out of me, Mr Seth, tellin me how much better your life was as a single guy 
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SetH
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last year was a proper cunt year for me wasnt myself, losing amanda really fucked me up.
thing thats annoying though is when u have a gfriend and you go out, girls try it on. As soon as your single NOTHING.
same with m8s, when you are single they all get themselves into relationships and when your in one they are all single
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antscorsa
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Originally posted by SetH
last year was a proper cunt year for me wasnt myself, losing amanda really fucked me up.
thing thats annoying though is when u have a gfriend and you go out, girls try it on. As soon as your single NOTHING.
same with m8s, when you are single they all get themselves into relationships and when your in one they are all single
haha yup those things always seem to happen but i guess the best thing about being single is that you find out more about yourself and what you want in life!
been single now for the past year and its done me the world of good personally. its shit sometimes like lack of girls at times but you just got to be patient and wait till the time is right and suddenly things will all fall into place
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willay
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its a frame of mind thing, at the end of the day its more then likely you havent met a girl that is completely suited to you, and after a string of bad relationships you are starting to think its you and not them.
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willay
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also what ant said, you cant engineer these type of things, meeting the right person just happens. If you look out it the case is you'll be unlikely to meet that special him or her.
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MatthewR
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losing Amanda?
I hope by that u mean splitting up?
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willay
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yes
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SetH
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yeah splitting up, shes fine and doing well for herself with a new fella.
and Yes willay i think your spot on m8, although i wouldnt rule out the possiblity that i am actually an arse
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willay
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we all think we are cunts and its all our fault at one point or another, I know I use to feel like that constantly and was sure that no woman would ever be right because I'm a total cunt.
But the truth really is you just havent found that one whos completely compatible with you.
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Skylined
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quote:
Originally posted by Aj.
Yes, i'm like this.
When i sit and think about it, i dont think i would have the patience to adapt my life style to suit anyone else's.
I'm at a stage in my life where i'm only thinking of myself, that sounds a bit selfish but....so what.
The only way i'll get a long term gf any time soon is if she likes me exactly the way i am now
same here...get bored of ppl easy aswel
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Andrew
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I feel the same SetH When ever i think about the future a girl is just not part of those plans.
It's a bit weird as there is someone stuck in my mind 24/7. I just can't tell one of my friends how i feel as i don't wanna loose her as a friend and none of my past relationships have lasted more than a few months.
I'm as confussed as ever Gonna just see what lies ahead tbh.
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LoudandProud
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i have had it that cos of me i ruin relationships, at the start ill do anything to make them happy, when things change i no longer show them i love them anymore cos i use the word no and cos i wont for example drive for 35 mins so they can use my toilet instead of one in a restaurant, just came out a relationship n fed up now, just dont want another one!
[Edited on 31-03-2007 by LoudandProud]
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willay
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quote:
Originally posted by Andrew
It's a bit weird as there is someone stuck in my mind 24/7. I just can't tell one of my friends how i feel as i don't wanna loose her as a friend and none of my past relationships have lasted more than a few months.
Make your own luck, tell her your feelings before its too late otherwise you'll just tourment yourself.
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by SetH
Anyone ever feel that they are not suited to a relationship, ie not in the right frame of mind or have the right personality/behavioural traits & lifestyle to be able to have a long term relationship?
I do now yes
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Lisa
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quote:
Originally posted by willay
quote:
Originally posted by Andrew
It's a bit weird as there is someone stuck in my mind 24/7. I just can't tell one of my friends how i feel as i don't wanna loose her as a friend and none of my past relationships have lasted more than a few months.
Make your own luck, tell her your feelings before its too late otherwise you'll just tourment yourself.
i was like that with adam and after a rocky start its great now
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Andrew
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quote:
Originally posted by willay
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Originally posted by Andrew
It's a bit weird as there is someone stuck in my mind 24/7. I just can't tell one of my friends how i feel as i don't wanna loose her as a friend and none of my past relationships have lasted more than a few months.
Make your own luck, tell her your feelings before its too late otherwise you'll just tourment yourself.
I would rather her be happy with someone else than loose her all together. Plus, if i tell her how i feel and fail uni, i'm gonna end up seeing her everyday 
I'm trying to work it now so we spend time together and just go with the flow.
I want two things, but it's one or the other
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willay
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psh, just get it out in the open and see where it goes, if she takes it the wrong way and it all goes tits up then I guess shes not that much of a mate.
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