Skylined
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Broke up wit the gf of 3 months last sat nite when we had a massive argument, and ended in her going mental when i tried to walk out, and hit me and tried kneeing me in the ribs etc. to which i resisted retaliation and just pushed her off and left.
She rang me all that night and apologised, got a taxi 2 my house when i wasn't there etc.
We met up next day and i told her i didn't want to get back wit her and needed a few weeks away from her to figure things out.
She came round the other night saying she missed me loads and doesn't want anyone else to which i gave the same answer, few weeks away...
But over the last few days i've been thinking about her loads and even though we used 2 argue a lot, we were mint together when we weren't arguing.
Is it worth starting a fresh or moving on?? 
If anyone has any views or constructive comments please discuss...
Thanks 
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K2 GTi
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new start, deffo 
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Pop
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she sounds like a pain in the arse, best off without her in my opinion
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_Allan_
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get a blowy then move on 
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topshot_2k
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give it 6weeks apart, then see how you feel if you still miss her then make another go of it
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Hamish
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Personally i would move on...its only 3 months...wouldnt call that a serious relationship. And if a girl tryed to knee me, i'd tell her to sling her hook. Thats my 2p's worth
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topshot_2k
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edit. just read the 3months bit. Move on my friend after 3 motnhs with a woman id still want to be smashing it not fighting with it
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Tom
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If you were arguing loads after just 3 months then I'd move on before you get in to deep. It's easy to remember the good times with rose tinted glasses IMO (cos' I'm a realist and not a romantic )
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stubs
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Move on.. and resist getting back, even if its months down the line.
You may have been "mint together".. but once you meet another girl who makes you think that about her, you will look back & only remember the bad times you had with her & be thankful you're not still getting that.
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Kathryn W
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quote:
Originally posted by Hamish
Personally i would move on...its only 3 months...wouldnt call that a serious relationship. And if a girl tryed to knee me, i'd tell her to sling her hook. Thats my 2p's worth
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Dione J
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quote:
Originally posted by _Allan_
get a blowy then move on
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Skylined
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Cheers guys
You're just confirming my thoughts as well i just wondered if I was stupid or not
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CCA
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Its only 3 months which is normally the 'honeymoon period' and if you were fighting alot then its clearly not gonna be a long term thing so move on and find another girl.
You'll be thankful in the long run
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SXi_Tim
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Yeah move on mate, if she is trying to punch you in the ribs after 3 months then i dread to think what it would be like after 3 years!
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Shane
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quote:
Originally posted by CCA
Its only 3 months which is normally the 'honeymoon period' and if you were fighting alot then its clearly not gonna be a long term thing so move on and find another girl.
You'll be thankful in the long run
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Eck
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As already said, its only been 3 months and you argue alot already. Plus no matter how long I was with a girl if she tried some kick boxing shit on me I'd be off
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willay
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she sounds abusive with her physical violence, might not be worth giving it another go.
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Tom
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Send her this thread 
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Colin
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Depends what sort of things you were arguing about tbh
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Cosmo
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quote:
Originally posted by willay
she sounds abusive with her physical violence, might not be worth giving it another go.
unless he is into getting beaten up by women?!
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Jay
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quote:
Originally posted by stubs
Move on.. and resist getting back, even if its months down the line.
You may have been "mint together".. but once you meet another girl who makes you think that about her, you will look back & only remember the bad times you had with her & be thankful you're not still getting that.
Too true - this has happened to me over the last year
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Ally
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she physically assulted you 3 months into a relationship
Mint togther - when you werent arguing
*alarm bells*
Seriously, unless you are really deeply in love with this girl then move on. Having that amount of head fuck in 3 months isnt a good start, if she twats you 3 months into a relationship imagine what she would do a year, 2 years in
[Edited on 19-02-2007 by Ally]
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willay
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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmo
quote:
Originally posted by willay
she sounds abusive with her physical violence, might not be worth giving it another go.
unless he is into getting beaten up by women?!
put them high heels on and press it on my gooch.
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Skylined
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quote:
Originally posted by Ally
Seriously, unless you are really deeply in love with this girl then move on. Having that amount of head fuck in 3 months isnt a good start, if she twats you 3 months into a relationship imagine what she would do a year, 2 years in
[Edited on 19-02-2007 by Ally]
was also thinking this
My college work and social life etc has been affected as wel by trying to work out wtf is going on most of the time. Most important time as well now as i'm concentrating on securing the grades i need for my Uni offers.
Cheers guys, will try forget her and move on
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sxibeast
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As the saying goes mate, "Plenty more fish in the sea!"
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