PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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Just split up after 3 years.
I was suprised i managed to fit all my stuff in just two car loads!
Moved back in with my parents 
Looking for sympathy...
Or just pics of semi-nude hot ladies...
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jamied
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Registered: 27th Oct 03
Location: Marbella,Spain Drives: C63
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know how you feel matey
its gets better well i aint but others do 
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cunningham
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Registered: 25th May 05
Location: Lochore, Fife
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thats shit dude why u split
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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she started distancing herself from me a lot, always finding something else to do other than be with me. When I asked what was up, she just said she didn't love me anymore.
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cunningham
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Registered: 25th May 05
Location: Lochore, Fife
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what a wee bot find someone better or have fujn before settling down (pissed btw so speelling is all to pot
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CorsAsh
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Registered: 19th Apr 02
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That's pretty harsh.
At least she didn't string you along, it'll be easier for you in the long run to have a clean break now, even though it must hurt like hell, than dragging it all out for ages.
You can spend some time gathering yourself together, then get on with your life, think about meeting someone new.
Hope it all works out ok in the end for you Phil. 
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Jules S
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Any financial ties?
Do yourself a big favour either way...don't dwell on it....just forget her and move on 
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
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well i'm 19 and my last 2 relationships have been 3 years and 2 years!
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PhilC
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Only financial ties are that I owe her £270... but most of the stuff in her flat is mine, so she's just keeping that... Microwave, kettle, router, tv, sandwich toaster, normal toaster etc etc
it works out, roughly
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CorsAsh
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I'm 22, longest relationship was 4 years, so I kinda understand what you must be feeling.
You'll meet someone though, sometimes the right person comes along just when you need it but least expect it.
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
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oooooooooooo.......
i'll expect bugger all, and then, i may encounter the lynx effect?
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CorsAsh
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If you wear cheap shit deodorant then the chances of finding someone new will diminish by, oooh, approximately 96%
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sparkywrex
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Registered: 27th Oct 06
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sorry to hear about that phil.
thing i awlays find that girls get fed up with routine
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
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We'd just moved in together 3 months ago...
I think it was too much for her
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Jules S
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quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
Only financial ties are that I owe her £270... but most of the stuff in her flat is mine, so she's just keeping that... Microwave, kettle, router, tv, sandwich toaster, normal toaster etc etc
it works out, roughly
Bummer.
If you can, focus on getting your own pad....by the sounds of it she always had the upper hand there.
FWIW im posting from my missus house...its taken a VERY long time to find somebody im comfortable with.....she has all her house/stuff and so do I....thats the only way I feel comfortable in a relationship these days
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CorsAsh
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Might have been, it's a lot different seeing someone every single day, soon as you wake up, last thing before you go to sleep than stopping by for a night or two.
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PhilC
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I worked daytimes, while she was in uni, and she worked 3/4 nights a week in a pub, (CAINS) so i hardly saw anything of her before... and the flat was her dads contribution to her Uni education, while her mum paid her tuition fees. The idea of me moving it suited everyone but me, but I had no choice cos i wanted to be with her
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PhilC
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The thing that annoys me most is that I fell out with my best mate over moving in aswell. Not sure if anyone remembers, but there was a thread on here about that too!
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
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Sleeptime now boys and girls. Another fun day at Maplin Electronics ahead!
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Jamie
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Registered: 1st Apr 02
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As they say dude it'll get better
I came out of a 3 year relationship Feb this year. Was hard for a couple of months but it does get ALOT easier
Just keep busy, see all your mates but dont go out looking for another relationship - few months of fun will work out better
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MatthewR
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Registered: 21st Oct 02
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Ahhh dude, chin up!
I split up with my ex of 3.5 years just 4months ago - broke my heart. I went on holiday had wicked time and ive now met a girl i think its ablsoutley wicked - You will be fine mate
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Kyle T
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quote:
Originally posted by MatthewR
Ahhh dude, chin up!
I split up with my ex of 3.5 years just 4months ago - broke my heart. I went on holiday had wicked time and ive now met a girl i think its ablsoutley wicked - You will be fine mate
Wicked!
Lotus Elise 111R
Impreza WRX STi
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MatthewR
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what im saying is mine was blessing in disguise.
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JM_16v
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quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
Looking for sympathy...
Or just pics of semi-nude hot ladies...
go prem and view THE THREAD
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Andrew
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Sorry dude
quote:
Originally posted by Jules S
quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
Only financial ties are that I owe her £270... but most of the stuff in her flat is mine, so she's just keeping that... Microwave, kettle, router, tv, sandwich toaster, normal toaster etc etc
it works out, roughly
Bummer.
If you can, focus on getting your own pad....by the sounds of it she always had the upper hand there.
FWIW im posting from my missus house...its taken a VERY long time to find somebody im comfortable with.....she has all her house/stuff and so do I....thats the only way I feel comfortable in a relationship these days
This the one thing that gets to me. I have my own flat and don't really want to give it up for say in 5 years time when she cheats, decides she doesn't love you or whatever. You have gone from everything being in your control and your to sharing. The only way i'd feel comfortable is to know i still have something left of mine -- i.e. rent my flat out. Although going back home and doing noting seems like a good plan to me right now
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