PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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me and my best mate have just decided to not bother speaking anymore.
Arguement started a while ago when his gf moved into mine and my gf's flat. Few issues came about, such as amount of rent she was paying etc etc (£60 a week in liverpool city centre  ) One arguement led to another and she moved out.
Haven't really spoke since then. Just text him to find out why he'd been ignoring me, and apparently, it's because I raised my voice in an argument with her!
WTF!
Been best mates since primary school... 
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dna23
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Registered: 1st Nov 04
Location: Northamptonshire
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women
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Russ
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Registered: 14th Mar 04
Location: Armchair
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i have no mates so dont have this problem 
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City
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Registered: 30th Dec 03
Location: Wakefield Drives: Red GSi
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count yourself lucky he hasnt found out about that drunken threesome you and you girlfriend had with her
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Lisa
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Registered: 6th Apr 00
Location: Euxton, Lancashire
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best mates let you down for the stupidest thing................i've been there for mine for loads of stuff and when i've needed her in last few weeks all she has done is been moral and fukin awful to me cos she don't agree with what i';m doing which is fine but i'm always there for her whether i agree or not
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Ally
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Registered: 2nd Jul 03
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depends how 'immoral' you are being Lisa 
Phil, wouldnt worry about it, when they split up he will be sorry
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Lisa
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quote:
Originally posted by Ally
depends how 'immoral' you are being Lisa
Phil, wouldnt worry about it, when they split up he will be sorry
not being immoral......just got something she wants and she aint having it............lol
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Ally
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Registered: 2nd Jul 03
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So shes jealous?
rub it in rub it in
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Tarrantino
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Registered: 29th Sep 04
Location: Essex
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quote:
Originally posted by dna23
women
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Lisa
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Registered: 6th Apr 00
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quote:
Originally posted by Ally
So shes jealous?
rub it in rub it in
i am...................thats the problem
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Icy
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Registered: 31st Jan 01
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quote:
Originally posted by Tarrantino
quote:
Originally posted by dna23
women
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Andrew
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Registered: 5th May 04
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Don't give your mates up over a girl. She will do you head in soon enough. Who are you then going to turn to?
Also, those girls who are mates will then get boyfriends and not want to know. When it all ends up in tears they will come back.
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Andrew
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I've been mates with my best mate for a good 10 years plus. Met him at college and lives in the next street. Both live completely different lives as i went to uni and he got a job. He met a girl and now they have split up. Whereas i've lived for my flat and cars, he's lived for his DVD collection and designer clothing whilst living at home.
Thing is, we have stayed good mates no matter what...
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drunkenfool
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Registered: 7th Feb 03
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im going through a similar thing with my mate at the moment, too tired to explain it now but in short he came up here to live with me at uni whilst getting paid by mum mum a bit to help out doing up the house while he looked for a job, he slacked a lot and still expected a lot of money, we fell out and now not talking at all and we've been mates since i was like 13.
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CorsAsh
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Registered: 19th Apr 02
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Never do business with friends.
Not all women are bad, unfortunately there are those that are well aware of how to get their own way or twist situations to cause people grief.
Hope it sorts out mate, with a bit of luck, she'll get fucked off, and you and your mate can rebuild the friendship.
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Aaron
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Registered: 9th Aug 04
Location: Cottingham, East Riding
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Just be careful, i wasnt speaking to me best friend for about 6 months for a few reasons...some stupid and some a bit more serious.
and then he died in a car crash while we wern't speaking 
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BabyBlade
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Registered: 5th Feb 03
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fell out with my best mate, he slept with my girlfriend and there like best mates now, oh well life goes on
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Tom
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I firmly believe the old saying that mates will be mates long after girls come and go 
I have a few people I regard as best mates for different reasons, one of who'm I apparantley tried to get into his bird when I was trollied about 3/4 yrs ago (can't remember tho ) we feel out for about 10 months but he realised I didn't like her etc and we are as good if not better mates now.
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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She was a 2faced @*?!#. She kept telling my gf how much she liked this other guy in work, so I told my mate, and he told me to keep out of his business. Aparetly, I was just trying to mess things up for him cos I was jealous of hos relationship and I didn't like her!
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Edd
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Registered: 8th Nov 04
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found my GF to be there a lot more for me than any of my "mates" ever have been
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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We've not been speaking for a bit now, and the only thing I miss is not being beaten on Pro Evo. All my other mates suck, and it's too easy.
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
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quote:
Originally posted by Edd
found my GF to be there a lot more for me than any of my "mates" ever have been
Indeed!
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w4sam1
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Registered: 19th Apr 06
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I fell out with my best mates a couple of weeks ago now, shes with this complete arse who treats her like shoot but she wont listen to me so we fell out over it iv been there for everytime they split up but they split up a couple of weeks ago n i just didn't wanna no coz it would be the same old story n thats why weve fallen out!
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MatthewR
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Registered: 21st Oct 02
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Situations like this is the worst kind. Its so difficult when your best pal falls out with you because of a bird.
Id say go for a pint with him and appologise if you upset her but it werent your intention, if he cant accept your appology and your plea to make things better than fcuk him - better off without.
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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I honestly don't think it's worth it. I asked yesterday if he could just put what's happened ion the last 2 months behind us and move on, and he siad that raising my voice over his psycho gf who was at the time kicking off at my gf, which was why I had to shout over her, can't be forgotten about or excused. I'd rather just move on with my life. He's got some growing up to do. All our other mates have took my side. They can all see that she's a manipulating <insert abuse here>. He's just gonna end up lonely.
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