SetH
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what are your thoughts on someone who gets with a guy/girl loses their virginity with them and stays with them, gets married, has kids gets old and dies? having gone through life with just that one person?
Is this a beautiful thing? how love is meant to be etc? Or do most of these end up divorced and hanging around in chicagos when they are 40 wishing they were 18?
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gianluigi
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divorced and hanging around in chicagos when they are 40 wishing they were 18?
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Lynny
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think thats great tbh, my parents met at 17, engage within 2 month, married year later, still together and nearly 50
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Shelly
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I suppose if you meet the one then that one person is good enough for you. If you think the world of someone and they are perfection in your eyes, your not going to look elsewhere.
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SetH
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Lynny do you think that happens much these days though?
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SetH
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I suppose if you meet the one then that one person is good enough for you. If you think the world of someone and they are perfection in your eyes, your not going to look elsewhere.
but if you have never been with anyone else then you have no basis for comparison? A case of ignorance is bliss perhaps?
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Lynny
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Lynny do you think that happens much these days though?
no not at all unfortunantly. think because of my up bringing tho i still have traditional views. E.G could never break up from a long relationship as i fancy to shag about for a bit. no really happiness from one night stands IMO, much prefer idea of stable relationship
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I suppose if you meet the one then that one person is good enough for you. If you think the world of someone and they are perfection in your eyes, your not going to look elsewhere.
but if you have never been with anyone else then you have no basis for comparison? A case of ignorance is bliss perhaps?
exactly...
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divorced and hanging around in chicagos when they are 40 wishing they were 18?
i've met a women who is 48yrs and just divorced, she's really weird 
wants my schlong its like she wants to be 18 again and she know shes missed out on life 
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ssj_kakarot
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parents met at 16 married ect still toghether now.
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Sam
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I think it's quite admirable, however the norm these days is to be a slut (male or female) and sleep around with as many people as possible, and in some cases infecting partner(s) with an STI, before growing old and realising that shit is pointless now and the need to settle down soon dawns on said person.
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Lynny
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I suppose if you meet the one then that one person is good enough for you. If you think the world of someone and they are perfection in your eyes, your not going to look elsewhere.
but if you have never been with anyone else then you have no basis for comparison? A case of ignorance is bliss perhaps?
i had this convo with my mam once, she said she just knew my dad was the one, knew from the moment they met that she'd spend her life with him
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Shelly
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Girls won't want to settle down with someone whos been the town bike... It's not a turn on to know someone has been dipping their dinkle everywhere possible.
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Lynny
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Girls won't want to settle down with someone whos been the town bike... It's not a turn on to know someone has been dipping their dinkle everywhere possible.
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i had this convo with my mam once, she said she just knew my dad was the one, knew from the moment they met that she'd spend her life with him
aww, thats really nice 
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Lynny
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i had this convo with my mam once, she said she just knew my dad was the one, knew from the moment they met that she'd spend her life with him
aww, thats really nice
yeah gives me hope
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tbh though its sort of expected these days, no longer a stigma to shag everything.
not that i condone it but it seems most people do it.
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Lynny
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tbh though its sort of expected these days, no longer a stigma to shag everything.
not that i condone it but it seems most people do it.
unfortunantly this is true. i have mates who feel totally fine about trying to shag about behind their other half's back, even if their other half is pregnant with their kid etc, no guilt
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SetH
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I think its hard for young people to be faithful these days, so much pressure from society, the stupid reality programs on tv influcening young pigeon girls etc.
clubs in the uk are just meat markets, binge drinking, girls trying to be like celebs, attetion whores etc it goes on and on.
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yeah me to a lot of the people i used to hang around with would boast about how many people they can sleep with behind there girlfriends back and just felt no shame/guilt about it.
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gianluigi
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pigeons have been corrupted
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SetH
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tbh though its sort of expected these days, no longer a stigma to shag everything.
not that i condone it but it seems most people do it.
And to add to that i think a lot of people feel they HAVE to do it as well, just because everyone else is and they dont want to miss out.
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Shelly
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bring back old fashioned romance
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Pigeon girls?
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gianluigi
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pigeons have been corrupted
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