JadeM
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How do you know when your 'in love' with someone
Been having a heated discussion with my boss about this today. He's old and synical and says there is no such a thing as being 'in love'
He says that you just become obsessed with someone your dating and don't want anyone else to have them, therefore you stick with them for that reason and that reason only 
I told him he's talking pish, and that if thats what he's based his 30 year marriage on then I feel sorry for his poor wife 
What do you lot think, what do you define as being in love, how do you know your in love. How do you know your partner is 'thee one'
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Robin
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when there are no uncomfortable silences, you can be silent in eachothers company, but its comfortable
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Butler
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I think its when you would be willing to give everything you own or sacrifice your own life for the other person
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SXi_Tim
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When you think about them all the time, you couldn't live without them, you would do anything for them and when you think about them you get a tingling sort of feeling inside, i do anyway
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JadeM
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quote: Originally posted by SXi_Tim
When you think about them all the time, you couldn't live without them, you would do anything for them and when you think about them you get a tingling sort of feeling inside, i do anyway
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Robin
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I miss that feeling
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Butler
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Im sure your car still feels the same way rob
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Jules
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quote: Originally posted by SXi_Tim
When you think about them all the time, you couldn't live without them, you would do anything for them and when you think about them you get a tingling sort of feeling inside, i do anyway
Hit the nail on the head
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Patrick
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quote: Originally posted by Butler
I think its when you would be willing to give everything you own or sacrifice your own life for the other person
I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years and I love her. Fuck giving everything I own away or sacrificing my life though! lol
For my kids though, that's a different matter..
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Tom
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It's been a long time I don't miss the fact that being in love means someone else can hurt you at the drop of a hat 
I miss all that other shit tho, wanting to do nice things for them to make their life better etc and really looking forward to seeing them but knowing it's gonna be no effort (fucks that's even longer ago can't remember that )
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Butler
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quote: Originally posted by Patrick
quote: Originally posted by Butler
I think its when you would be willing to give everything you own or sacrifice your own life for the other person
I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years and I love her. Fuck giving everything I own away or sacrificing my life though! lol
For my kids though, that's a different matter..
I dont think I worded that right, think sxi tim has hit the nail on the head there though
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Ally
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quote: Originally posted by Jules
quote: Originally posted by SXi_Tim
When you think about them all the time, you couldn't live without them, you would do anything for them and when you think about them you get a tingling sort of feeling inside, i do anyway
Hit the nail on the head
*sighs yeh and you miss them when your not with them, even if it is only during the day at work
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Gg_mf
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A mixture of things really:
1. They are on your mind all the time.
2.You will go out of your way to impress them.
You are so comfortable with them.
3. You cant imagine yourself ever being apart from them.
4. You will do anything at all for them to protect them.
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Liam
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quote: Originally posted by SXi_Tim
When you think about them all the time, you couldn't live without them, you would do anything for them and when you think about them you get a tingling sort of feeling inside, i do anyway

quote: Originally posted by robmarriott
I miss that feeling
So do I
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Jamie Walby
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I miss having a girlfriend.
me and a few of the lads were at the beach on Tuesday and one of them was with his girlfriend. They are just in the early stages of a relationship so still cant keep off eachother.
I miss kisses/hugs/sex on tap......
[Edited on 08-06-2006 by Jamie Walby]
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Ally
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In the real world Love is just natures trick to make you procreate
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JadeM
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quote: Originally posted by Ally
and you miss them when your not with them, even if it is only during the day at work
So true .............. talking of which I have 5 mins to get back to work or I'm gonna be late
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Liam
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Best get going
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Fee
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when you dont get embarrassed farting infront of them!
Adam didnt fart in front of me until we had moved in together I still claim he moved me in under false pretences
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Rileysport
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This thread means i am not in love then
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Ally
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Yeh Fee the fartin thing
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dna23
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It's when she swallows or when you try the angry parrot and she just smiles instead 
[Edited on 08-06-2006 by dna23]
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Kathryn W
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quote: Originally posted by SXi_Tim
When you think about them all the time, you couldn't live without them, you would do anything for them and when you think about them you get a tingling sort of feeling inside, i do anyway
Very true!!
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SXi_Tim
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My g/f always does them and blames them on me
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Tom
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Girls shouldn't fart, it's wrong i've never been in love
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