dave17
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Been thinking about this recently. Was talking to my mum and dad, and i said i cant see myself getting married  I cant see me ever trusting a woman enough to devote the rest of my life to, share everything etc. Plus i dont trust myself to not get bored of them.
The thoughts of having kids is cool, a little me running around would be a right chuckle, but i cant see it happening. Id rather save my money and buy a Ferrari
Any other thoughts?
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3CorsaMeal
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marriage is sooo 1970's
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antscorsa
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think when u meet the right women ur mind will change!
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dave17
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Thats what people always say, but i cant see it happeneing 
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sigibbons
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No offence. Probably because the women you go for, are the sort of women you wouldnt want to marry.
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Jambo
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Everyones indiviual Dave 
You may change, you may not. Marriage isnt for everyone, ive been bought up to be a very family orientated person, so it appeals to me, not now but certainly in te future
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antscorsa
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thinks i need to get out of brom dave, no respectable girls around!!!
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dave17
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I think thats the problem, living in between Bromley and Croydon all i meet is hoebags 
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antscorsa
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hahaha same everywhere dave, i went london met a girl and turns out she lives one road away, cant get away
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dave17
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well i went magaluf and ended up shagging a bird who lives 5 mins away from me
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Ally
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If you wanna get married then cool. Im happy with living together atm, we are practically married anyway and dont need the piece of paper saying we are!
Might feel diff. when im older, will review it when im 25 and get back to you
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SVM 286
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
Id rather save my money and buy a Ferrari
Agreed Dave, apart from the bit about kids.
I'd rather be hit by a plane than have kids.
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Ian
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It'll come with age Dave. You are still quite young to be thinking about it. Plus you need to get bored of your current lifestyle.
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richardworrall
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i thought id found the right one, married her, 18 months later she she does the dirty on me, and just waiting for divorce to come through. Life can be a shitter sometimes!!!
Ill certainly learn from my mistakes.
[Edited on 12-05-2006 by richardworrall]
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Matt H
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Im not ready to become that miserable yet
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Rob_Lee
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Not gay are you? lol.... if you are i think you might wanna pm OJC.... i hear he's looking!
[Edited on 12-05-2006 by Rob_Lee]
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stuartmitchell
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
The thoughts of having kids is cool, a little me running around would be a right chuckle, but i cant see it happening. Id rather save my money and buy a Ferrari
me too 
Bachelor pad
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ECCLESri
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
Been thinking about this recently. Was talking to my mum and dad, and i said i cant see myself getting married I cant see me ever trusting a woman enough to devote the rest of my life to, share everything etc. Plus i dont trust myself to not get bored of them.
The thoughts of having kids is cool, a little me running around would be a right chuckle, but i cant see it happening. Id rather save my money and buy a Ferrari
Any other thoughts?
saying that tho, that is exactly what i tell my mates. i cant trust any girl and dont think i ever will do and if u get married and break up its way too much hassle. and with the ferrari comment, i feel the same. without sounding selfish, but i would rather spend money ona nice car and house that is deisgned for me and only for me.
and with a ferrari ur not exactly going to be without sex so its all good 
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MatthewR
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The day u feel different to what u do now is the bird u will marry mate
[Edited on 12-05-2006 by MatthewR]
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stuartmitchell
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Exactly, were materialistic coonts and dont care
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Edd
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GF goes on about getting engaged but the truth is i dont want to get married or move out of my mums house yet
the thought of it scares me on so many levels
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Paul_J
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If you do get married, make sure you have a good Pre-nup agreement
I think number 1 thing I'd be most worried about would be the bitch cheating on me, then taking half of everything I owned 
Happened to someone I knew a little while ago, his wife started sleeping around - so they went for divorce and she took half of everything he had, including having to sell his house (which he had been paying for) to give her half the money.
Apparently because she paid like £400 ONCE towards the mortgage she was entitled to half of the house
bit off, he's now struggling with money problems, debt etc - Still paying off the mortgage for the old house  harsh.
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Nismo
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i cant see me being able to afford it let alone going ahead with a marrige.
i will have kids , whether that means knocking up some random or someone im with
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mwg
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I've always thought to myself that I'd wanna be married before I'm 26.
One of my cousins has got to 27 and hes not got married.
I dont want to be an old Dad. My Dad isn't an old Dad to me as I'm now 21 and hes 50 this year but I have another younger brother thats only 4 years old so he is an old Dad for him! I dont want my kids to have an old Dad thats 60+ when they are at secondary school
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mwg
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plus I dont like being single. too lonely.
and want my kids to be brought up with stability as I didn't have that with my Mum and Dad splitting up so I know what its like to not have it and dont want them to go through that.
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