Sam
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Does this work with an ex you have spent a (long) period of time with?
What about if you know they are actively looking for a new partner (and probably shagging around)?
I feel this could be a head fuck...?
Please discuss.
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Aaron
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Major head fuck. speaking from experience, dont do it unless you want to hurt your self even more 
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Sam
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To be honest I did initially entertain the idea but the more I thought about it, the the more I thought I CBA with that... She is a totally different girl to the one I went out with, she's turned into a proper slut now.
I just wondered if anyone else on here had done this and if it worked out for them?
As for hurt... I think I've gone past that stage now, I just feel kinda numb inside if I think of her sleeping with other people. Maybe I've gotten over her at last?
Interestingly, I hardly ever contact her, she almost always initiates contact with me. Wanting to have her cake and eat it, I suspect.
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Ry_B
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They work as long as you don't get too attached, and are good fun 
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Andrew
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i couldn't do it, i get far to attached 
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Sam
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Argh she won't leave me alone she keeps texting me! Why can't she just do something with that idiot she's with at the moment and leave me alone! 
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MikeD
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Stay away, show her you don give a fcuk
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Sam
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She told me she still loves me the other week... Then a few days later claimed she was "feeling emotional" and shouldn't have told me... I was like "GTF!"
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ClaireF
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fuck buddies no, one night stands yeah
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Sam
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quote:
Originally posted by vauxcorsagirl
fuck buddies no, one night stands yeah
Can we have a one night stand? 
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MikeD
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quote:
Originally posted by vauxcorsagirl
fuck buddies no, one night stands yeah
That doesnt make you look good claire
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Andrew
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lol
[Edited on 05-03-2006 by Andrew]
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Sam
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If you have more than one one-night stand with the same person, does that make you fuck buddies?
PS. I'm bored and will go back in my box soon...
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Sam
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quote:
Originally posted by Andrew
Bint
[Edited on 05-03-2006 by Andrew]
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ClaireF
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quote:
Originally posted by MikeD
quote:
Originally posted by vauxcorsagirl
fuck buddies no, one night stands yeah
That doesnt make you look good claire
yeah but relationships dont alwasy work, and then it hurts you, so might as well have one or two one nights so then doesnt. Or might b just my past
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MikeD
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We all get hurt ts part of life, but its how you move on that makes you stronger, Ive never had a one night stand and dont intend too, there are too many risks
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Sam
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quote:
Originally posted by MikeD
We all get hurt ts part of life, but its how you move on that makes you stronger, Ive never had a one night stand and dont intend too, there are too many risks
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baza31
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dont do it mate. if you just want a shag just go out in town and get a dirty slag or pay for , its bad enough getting them out of your head the first time round
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Kathryn W
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I wouldnt be able to do that.. i'd get well to emotional and attatched...
Although Sam it does not sound like the best thing to do! Stay away unless you want to become even more hurt!
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Matt H
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You've clearly thought this through far too much for it just to be sex. You want more by the sounds of things.
So stay away
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JadeM
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Have a wank instead - less hassle 
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CorsAsh
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Sleeping with an ex is great in the sense that it's familiar, you know how to get each other going etc. Just be careful that you don't end up getting more serious if that's not what you want.
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langey
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fuck her up the arse then fuck her off for good
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drax
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did it for a while, its great till they start getting interested in someone?
then it fucks with your head, also it can be hard to move on from her doing this this way, so Maybe, a couple of months then pack it in mate
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Pablo
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used too, then met my gf
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