Dannie
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Afternoon CS
Ive got a problem. I went out to lunch and saw my mate James kissing and all over this girl who ive never seen before. James has a girlfriend who ive now become quite good mates with, and im not sure whether to tell her or not what i saw. James is one of my best mates so im kinda stuck i think.
I dont know whether to kep my mouth shut OR tell the girlfriend 
I really dont know what to do.
Any suggestions?
[Edited on 01-09-2005 by Dannie]
[Edited on 01-09-2005 by Dannie]
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gianluigi
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talk to james
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Dannie
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good idea.
but i know if i talk to him he'll say he'll tell his girlfriend but i know he wont. and i dont wanna see her hurt, shes a really nice girl
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--Dave--
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keep your trap shut. It's nothing to do with you.
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--Dave--
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and GTF
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Sam
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quote:
Originally posted by gianluigi
talk to james
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Jake
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you have friends?
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Dannie
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quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
keep your trap shut. It's nothing to do with you.
but shes my mate and if it was me id wanna know 
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Dannie
Afternoon CS
On my way to my dog grooming studi photoshoot I saw my mate James kissing and all over this girl who ive never seen before. James has a girlfriend who ive now become quite good mates with, and im not sure whether to tell her or not what i saw. James is one of my best mates so im kinda stuck i think.
I dont know whether to kep my mouth shut OR tell the girlfriend
I really dont know what to do.
Any suggestions?
[Edited on 01-09-2005 by Dannie]
[Edited on 01-09-2005 by Dannie]
Not sure go to the shoot and let him develop the guilt 
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by Dannie
quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
keep your trap shut. It's nothing to do with you.
but shes my mate and if it was me id wanna know
but it's not you is it so just keep quiet.
Knowing you though you'll probably go blabbering it to her in the next hour.
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richard_syko
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We all know you had your leg round James whlst he was with another bird
Nobody told them
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Dannie
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but wouldnt you all wanna know if you were being cheated on and your mate knew about it
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Craig W
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Originally posted by Sam
quote:
Originally posted by gianluigi
talk to james
Talk to Frank
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CCA
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Surely you could have come up with a more original name than James.
And if its true then keep your nose out of it, its their relationship and he may decide to tell her in his own time, if he doesnt then be there for both of them when/if it goes wrong
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richard_syko
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quote:
Originally posted by CCA
Surely you could have come up with a more original name than James.
And if its true then keep your nose out of it, its their relationship and he may decide to tell her in his own time, if he doesnt then be there for both of them when/if it goes wrong
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Dannie
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sorry james is a popular name, there is at least 5 james's on CS. and im sure everyone knows a james.
I'll keep my mouth shut then
[Edited on 01-09-2005 by Dannie]
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by Dannie
but wouldnt you all wanna know if you were being cheated on and your mate knew about it
you penis.
This is a different question to the one you asked in your first post.
Would I want to know? Yes of course.
Should you tell them? No, it's none of your business
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Dannie
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quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
quote:
Originally posted by Dannie
but wouldnt you all wanna know if you were being cheated on and your mate knew about it
you penis.
This is a different question to the one you asked in your first post.
Would I want to know? Yes of course.
Should you tell them? No, it's none of your business
you nob. you just made your self look stupid.
Of course everyone wants to know if there being cheated on, ESPECALLY if your mate knew all along, you'd expect them to tell you as your there "mate"
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by Dannie
sorry james is a popular name, there is at least 5 james's on CS. and im sure everyone knows a james.
I'll keep my mouth shut then
[Edited on 01-09-2005 by Dannie]
For the love of God please do!
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Tom
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On the other hand would you expect your mate to tell your bird you cheated on them 
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by Dannie
quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
quote:
Originally posted by Dannie
but wouldnt you all wanna know if you were being cheated on and your mate knew about it
you penis.
This is a different question to the one you asked in your first post.
Would I want to know? Yes of course.
Should you tell them? No, it's none of your business
you nob. you just made your self look stupid.
Of course everyone wants to know if there being cheated on, ESPECALLY if your mate knew all along, you'd expect them to tell you as your there "mate"
and?
everyone on here knows I'm stupid 
I suspect you just want to be a grass and get a brown nose from James
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Half Pint
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just go get on her, problem sorted she's cheated too 
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gianluigi
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Originally posted by --Dave--
and GTF
wat does that mean  
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Mad Moe
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If you grass your mate up you're not really much of a mate are you.
Can I take it you wouldn't even know who this girl is if it wasn't for your mate?
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by gianluigi
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Originally posted by --Dave--
and GTF
wat does that mean
Go to France.
Is commonly used when you want to politely tell someone to F off but don't want to be rude
[Edited on 01-09-2005 by --Dave--]
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