Antz
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Well, spend £10 on fuel to go see Alison tonight for her to tell me as soon as I get there that we had grown apart and it wasn't gonna work for much longer, she said she wanted to end it tonight cos it was just gonna happen next week!
I couldn't stop crying all the way home from her house! I feel like I've been kicked in my stomach, I thrown up, god I'm a fucking wreck!
I think I loved her you guys, I really do 
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Nath
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Unlucky mate
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scoob
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£10 down the drain
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J da Silva
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Your a young lad, there are more girls waiting to be semenated, just a case of how old they are and whether or not you'll get reported. 
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leeshez
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Sorry to hear that
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Antz
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She just sent me a text... 'Ant, lets see how it goes as friends for a week or so please. I don't want to hurt you, and I don't want you to change anything about your self, you're perfect as you are, we've just grown apart'
WTF does that mean?????
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Jake
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dont want to sound out of order but maybe she's got bored?
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J da Silva
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Maybe she feels 'distant' from you, unless you were siamese twins and you got seperated in your sleep?
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Sam
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Get a grip man you've only been seeing her for just over 4 months?
Come back when you've been with someone for at least 3 years then you will really feel gutted! 
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Poot
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quote:
Originally posted by Antz
She just sent me a text... 'Ant, lets see how it goes as friends for a week or so please. I don't want to hurt you, and I don't want you to change anything about your self, you're perfect as you are, we've just grown apart'
WTF does that mean?????
Not trying to sound harsh...but a mate used that line with his ex when he got bored
[Edited on 15-08-2005 by Poot]
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Sam
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quote:
Originally posted by jake
dont want to sound out of order but maybe she's got bored?
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Antz
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Thing is, I've knon there was a problem for about 3 days and everytime I asked her it was always the same.. nothings wrong, don't worry...
ask her if she's planning to break up with me... answer = no, don't worry, we are fine...
then tonight happens.
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Sam.S
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quote:
Originally posted by Antz
ask her if she's planning to break up with me...
With what I have leanrt from women is NEVER use this line. It kind of makes them feel ontop of the relationship. Nowadays, women dont like to be 'on top' of a relationship and prefer to be treat like sh!t.
Keep your chin up mate.. I think I can honestly say most of us have been there.
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richard_syko
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Pics? 
Gutting man, no point saying theres plenty more fish in the sea and all that shit.
Leave it a few days, you never know
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Antz
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was gonna buy her some roses but you think that'll just piss her off?...
What can I do now to get her back?... I really want her back!!!
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Jake
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have some dignity and DONT buy her roses
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richard_syko
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Leave it till the weekend.
Maybe a "How are you?" text in the week.
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MKC
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friends wiv ur ex rarely works - makes things harder imo.
really sorry 2 hear that mate - but u have all us guyz on here 4 u 
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Jake
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quote:
Originally posted by richard_syko
Leave it till the weekend.
Maybe a "How are you?" text in the week.
if i were you i wouldnt even make contact with her, she broke it up. Why should you make the effort?
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CorsAsh
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It's time for those little white pills...
Chin up son. 
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Sam.S
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Now its time to have fun with the lads.. get a lads holiday booked... go out on the piss... do things YOU want to do!
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richard_syko
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quote:
Originally posted by Keith C SRI
friends wiv ur ex rarely works - makes things harder imo.
really sorry 2 hear that mate - but u have all us guyz on here 4 u
I rathe keep my arse un poked thanks.
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John
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I'd cut your losses and get pissed tbh. You'll only regret it if you get back with her. And you'll think 3 years down the line why the fuck did i not know what was good for me back then.
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Dom
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go fuck her sister/mum mate - women like that arnt worth the air nor space on this planet, if she doesn't want to be with you mate, its her lost and like said ex's as friends works about as well as a waterprooof tea bag
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Dom
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although i would ask why she broke up with you, because she used some seriously lame arsed excuse - "we grew apart", what the feck does that mean? maybe shes getting it from another man, or you have a small penis? or that she's really a lesbian?
who knows, who cares...really? go get wasted with the lads, get another lass and see how that one pans out
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