ticky661
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Registered: 26th Feb 01
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hi guys, i need a bit of advice here, im not sure what to do. me and the girlfriend of 3years split up at the weekend, weve been going through a bad patch for a while now and she says she needs some time on her own at the moment to sort her head out, then when she's sorted that out she may give us another go, but she also may not. She wont give me a definate answer so ive no idea what is going to happen. and im just basically waiting around.
but i bumped into a different ex girlfiend, on the sunday and told her what had happened, we exchanged numbers and have been txting each other back and forward. i met up with her last night and took her for a nice walk. she is a great lass, lovely little body and ass, and i like her a lot. She likes me a lot and has told me, but she has a boyfriend, who she has been with for 4years, and is thinking of breaking up with him. i think she wants a relationship with me, but yet i like her a lot, i still love the other girl a lot and want her back more than anything, but im not sure if we will get back together. i dont know what to do, i feel guilty about all of this and i know if my ex of 3yrs wanted me back id drop the other girl in an instant. i dont think im being fair on her, and im leading her on a lot. what would you do in this situation? im worried if i end up with neither of them. sorry for the long post
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Jamie
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Pics?
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3CorsaMeal
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run someone's cat over, then do 100mph past there cottage everyday for 3years, and see how long they take to flip and come after you 
thats what i did
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ticky661
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Registered: 26th Feb 01
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i dont have pics sorry, the girl iwas seeing for 3years is the fittest, but the other has a georgeous little body
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Rebrabuk
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What's the point in asking us? Only you know how you feel about each of them..
I notice your from my area. So take your pick of the girls and i'll satisfy the other one for you. Everyones happy.
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TNM
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Bang your old ex for a bit until the bird you have just split up with wants you back. Sorted 
Every ones a winner.
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Demo
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quote: Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
run someone's cat over, then do 100mph past there cottage everyday for 3years, and see how long they take to flip and come after you 
thats what i did
thats the best relationship therapy ive ever fucking heard
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ticky661
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Registered: 26th Feb 01
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TNM - cant do that becuase if the ex of 3years found out, she wouldnt come back to me. they have never met each other before but the old ex's best friend is also a friend of the ex of 3years
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Tom
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I'd sort your head out make you sound a bit fickle to me, you either like one or the other if you know them both really well, don't get caught up with there looks ffs if you were with them both for long periods and they haven't both balloooned then looks are the last thing you should be thinking about 
What the fuck am I saying 
I just stop now
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Jamie Walby
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Send them both my way! I will carry out a series of scientific sexual tests and report back to you with my findings!
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ticky661
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lol, well the old ex, i finished her as i was young and i wasnt ready for anything serious, but she was a great girl, but i really do prefer the other one, she's great
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TNM
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quote: Originally posted by ticky661
TNM - cant do that becuase if the ex of 3years found out, she wouldnt come back to me. they have never met each other before but the old ex's best friend is also a friend of the ex of 3years
Your sorted then. just fuck like rabbits on heat.
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Dannie
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you obviously really like the girl u just split with, as you said u would drop the other girl for her.
dont ruin things by screwing your head up aswell as ur ex.
This thing with your ex ex girlfriend might be nothing, do u really wanna throw it all away with ur last girlfriend for nothing?
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Rebrabuk
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Women take sex too seriously..
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Ally
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can i get a reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeebound
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Dannie
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ticky661 - did u kiss or do anything with this girl u met with last night?
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Ally
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advice - figure out what you want, be single for a while, u never know, the right bird could come along, who isnt attached
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Katie
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If you really want to get back with the gf you have just split up with, i would stay well away from your other ex, because if anything happen's between you two, i think that will make your most recent ex gf's mind up, and she won't get back with you. I don't want to sound patronising, but you might also be on the rebound and thats why you are chasing after an old ex? I would personally stay away from both of them for a while, so that you can make your mind up on what you wanna do and give your recent ex time to see wether or not she would miss you if she didn't see you.
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Dannie
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TNM
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tricky: dont listen to the felmales! They are just hear to make the pain worse!
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ticky661
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Registered: 26th Feb 01
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hi guys, thanks for the advice, i have not done anything with this girl, she tried to kiss me when we met but i couldnt do it and rejected it. i think i am doing this on the rebound, its just nice to feel wanted at the mo. but i love the girl ive just split up with and i want her back more than anything but its nice this girl showing so much attention. i just dont really wana jepodise my chances of getting her back
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dave17
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quote: Originally posted by TNM
Bang your old ex for a bit until the bird you have just split up with wants you back. Sorted 
Every ones a winner.
thats my line
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Ian
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Registered: 28th Aug 99
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One is an ex and the other is about to become an ex? That must have happened for a reason. Move on.
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TNM
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Ian will you be at TRAX?
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Ian
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Yeah why
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