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mestonian

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29th Sep 04 at 21:34

19 Years Old, live with parents still, but for last 3 years every day without fail when i get in my bedroom is spick and span, all the drawers tidied neatly, etc right down to last detail, now no matter how much i plead for some privacy im told its their house and they will go where they want. Jesus i could have anything lying about, none of mates parents are like that just wondered how many off here have experienced it? Or are my parents seriously deranged like i thought? lol

Ian

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29th Sep 04 at 21:35

You get your room tidied every day and you're complaining?

mestonian

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29th Sep 04 at 21:36

quote:
Originally posted by Ian
You get your room tidied every day and you're complaining?

lol, knew someone wud see it like that, its not like that, ive got letters from/to my ex etc, bills, private things and everything gets read in the process of tidying, personal (really personal) things moved just so i know theyve seen it. pathetic

the_legend_of_yrag

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29th Sep 04 at 21:37

in a way if i lived at home wouldnt mind my mum tidying room, but then again wouldnt want her to incase she found something she shouldnt be finding

Kris TD

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29th Sep 04 at 21:37

buy a safe for like £50 and stick bits in there

mestonian

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29th Sep 04 at 21:39

quote:
Originally posted by Kris TD
buy a safe for like £50 and stick bits in there

I kno wot ya sayin m8, but point im getting at is at 19, i shud be allowed some privacy for christ sakes, ive spoke to 20 / 30 mates about it loads a tims and none of them have the same problem, their left to it and for instance if sum1 cums 2 there door they knock before coming in, mine just walk str8 in n out again and if i say owt, back to "its our house we'll go where we want, if u dont like it move out" lol

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29th Sep 04 at 21:39

quote:
Originally posted by mestonian
19 Years Old, live with parents still, but for last 3 years every day without fail when i get in my bedroom is spick and span, all the drawers tidied neatly, etc right down to last detail, now no matter how much i plead for some privacy im told its their house and they will go where they want. Jesus i could have anything lying about, none of mates parents are like that just wondered how many off here have experienced it? Or are my parents seriously deranged like i thought? lol

what your saying is that your porn collection is poorly hidden and your scared your mum will find it.

Valleyscorsa

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29th Sep 04 at 21:40

or just tidy your own room you lazy dumb ass!

no offence

Matt H

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29th Sep 04 at 21:41

maybe your mum is attracted to you & wants your cock

Andrew

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29th Sep 04 at 21:45

I wish someone would come and tidy my flat

I wouldn't complain, just remove a floor board or get a locked tin to put personal stuff in

I wish i was still at home but my parents were like no your not going out tonight, no your not getting another car, it's our house and we'll tell you what you can and can't do. I had to get out before i cracked up or had a break down or something, it's was just so stressfull

Dom

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29th Sep 04 at 21:49

just buy a safe and problem solved

Or start paying rent lad and tidy your own room abit more mate, and they will leave u alone

GT4Brody

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29th Sep 04 at 21:54

That would do my nut in, my mum stopped tidying my room when i wqas about 12!! mind you i wouldnt mind her coming round and tidying my flat up now pmsl

mestonian

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29th Sep 04 at 22:00

No i do tidy my room, even if its spotless (i am very clean) they come in and tidy it THEIR way, everything has to be how THEY want it cos its THEIR house. I really do need to get out but cant afford it... might sell car and just bus it , or mebby not!!! lol

harry23

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29th Sep 04 at 22:03

same problem at my house so fcuking annoying but my parents (mum) also reads my bank statements and any other letters i get! just see the opened envelope on the stairs when i get in then get an earful for not saving enough!

mestonian

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29th Sep 04 at 22:20

quote:
Originally posted by harry23
same problem at my house so fcuking annoying but my parents (mum) also reads my bank statements and any other letters i get! just see the opened envelope on the stairs when i get in then get an earful for not saving enough!

lol yeh mate i had that today, came in and found a nice opened letter from next catalogue saying i owe them £83 lol - I really dont understand it. Gotta move out but cant afford flat rental near my house, looking at £450 - £600 unfurnished for decent flat and then theres months upfront deposit too.

Adam-D

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29th Sep 04 at 22:27

my room is like a car spares shop

Dom

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29th Sep 04 at 22:32

quote:
Originally posted by mestonian

quote:
Originally posted by harry23
same problem at my house so fcuking annoying but my parents (mum) also reads my bank statements and any other letters i get! just see the opened envelope on the stairs when i get in then get an earful for not saving enough!

lol yeh mate i had that today, came in and found a nice opened letter from next catalogue saying i owe them £83 lol - I really dont understand it. Gotta move out but cant afford flat rental near my house, looking at £450 - £600 unfurnished for decent flat and then theres months upfront deposit too.

if my folks opened my letters i would do a fooking nut

i would have a go at them about it! and if they say its their house blah blah, say that your letters arnt their property so tell them to GTF

If that fails, then just start opening their letters as well, and if they say anything, say "oh i thought we could all open each others letters" etc etc

[Edited on 29-09-2004 by VisibleMan]

mestonian

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29th Sep 04 at 22:38

quote:
Originally posted by VisibleMan

quote:
Originally posted by mestonian

quote:
Originally posted by harry23
same problem at my house so fcuking annoying but my parents (mum) also reads my bank statements and any other letters i get! just see the opened envelope on the stairs when i get in then get an earful for not saving enough!

lol yeh mate i had that today, came in and found a nice opened letter from next catalogue saying i owe them £83 lol - I really dont understand it. Gotta move out but cant afford flat rental near my house, looking at £450 - £600 unfurnished for decent flat and then theres months upfront deposit too.

if my folks opened my letters i would do a fooking nut i would have a go at them about it! and if they say its their house blah blah, say that your letters arnt their property so tell them to GTF If that fails, then just start opening their letters as well, and if they say anything, say "oh i thought we could all open each others letters" etc etc

[Edited on 29-09-2004 by VisibleMan]

lol, had all of the above m8, opened there letters and got told ill have mi bags packed next time, when they open mine get told there alrite to becos wot i do reflects on them and their address etc. honestly just nosey old twats and i hate2say it cos there my rents but cant see ne utha reason 4it.

Dom

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29th Sep 04 at 22:52

quote:
Originally posted by mestonian

quote:
Originally posted by VisibleMan

quote:
Originally posted by mestonian

quote:
Originally posted by harry23
same problem at my house so fcuking annoying but my parents (mum) also reads my bank statements and any other letters i get! just see the opened envelope on the stairs when i get in then get an earful for not saving enough!

lol yeh mate i had that today, came in and found a nice opened letter from next catalogue saying i owe them £83 lol - I really dont understand it. Gotta move out but cant afford flat rental near my house, looking at £450 - £600 unfurnished for decent flat and then theres months upfront deposit too.

if my folks opened my letters i would do a fooking nut i would have a go at them about it! and if they say its their house blah blah, say that your letters arnt their property so tell them to GTF If that fails, then just start opening their letters as well, and if they say anything, say "oh i thought we could all open each others letters" etc etc

[Edited on 29-09-2004 by VisibleMan]

lol, had all of the above m8, opened there letters and got told ill have mi bags packed next time, when they open mine get told there alrite to becos wot i do reflects on them and their address etc. honestly just nosey old twats and i hate2say it cos there my rents but cant see ne utha reason 4it.

get a safe mate and get all of your mail redirected to a friends house etc and if they ask tell them its none of their business, and if they dont like do what they want etc etc Then drop in something about how you decide where their nursing home is and that you wouldnt like to tell their future grand children that their grandparents are witches or something, or at worse, dont exist etc.

ive done this to my old man (me old dear is safe as fook

) and he shut up, and hasnt really done anything since

tbh mate, it depends on how well you can live with it....i know i wouldnt have anything of it. Tbh mate, if you arnt paying rent, then offer them something every month (if your working etc) and they might start to leave you alone.

Nismo

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29th Sep 04 at 22:57

answer is get your own place.

Dom

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29th Sep 04 at 22:59

quote:
Originally posted by Nismo
answer is get your own place.

not all of us can afford it mate. And yes get a better job, just isnt possible due to qualifications etc etc

Eitherway, you parents should still respect your privacy, same as you do with theirs.