dave17
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think im staring to get seriously depressed. some of u may remember the post about me breaking up with my girlfriend. wel a few week ago, we were basically back 2gether, sleept together twice. thought everything was going fine, then i went round hers one night, an things felt off, so i went home, we didnt speak 4 a few days, then we start txtin and she says we can only b friends. i didnt want that, but i accepted it anyway. wel, yesterday i basically told her i couldn take bein jus friends, and that i wanted her back, she told me theres no chance then i asked for reasons, and one of thme was that shed already slept with some1 2 weeks after we first broke up and what pisses me off is that when we were bk 2geva, we went out 4 a meal, and she looked me in the eye and swore that shed done nothing more than kiss 2 people when she was drunk so now im even more pissed off!
plus, gona quit my job on monday coz it doesnt challenge me and al i think about is danni
plus, i cant get a job in the field i want (graphic design)
plus, im waiting for my court date for speeding
plus, danni likes this person shes sleeping with and knew him while i was with her 
life is fucking shit
[Edited on 06-09-2005 by Ian]
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big eck
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ach cheer up, things can only get better
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Natalie
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We all go through bits like this, where you think its all shit etc...
But im sure it will get better
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Jason Iles
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Don't get depressed mate, spend sometime with your closest friends and keep yourself busy to take your mind off things.
And i'm sure things will start looking up again.
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Robbo
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Great advice from the teaman 
Chin up buddy
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Jason Iles
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quote: Originally posted by Robbo
Great advice from the teaman 
Chin up buddy
Been there b4 and was the worst point I have been at, didn't stop straight away but having your friends with you deffo helps, the wort thing to do is sit round doing F all even if thats all you want to do
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Nismo
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Jase if your at home come visit me im bored
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Jason Iles
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quote: Originally posted by Nismo
Jase if your at home come visit me im bored
Can't tonight as it is the 70's doo if you are at a loose end tonight you can come along too and kip at mine?
Let me know bud, fancy dress isn't compulsary so no worries there 
[Edited on 24-09-2004 by J 11ESY]
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Robbo
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I am stuck bored at home as well 
[Edited on 24-09-2004 by Robbo]
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Nismo
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quote: Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote: Originally posted by Nismo
Jase if your at home come visit me im bored
Can't tonight as it is the 70's doo if you are at a loose end tonight you can come along too and kip at mine?
Let me know bud, fancy dress is compulsary so no worries there
Cheeky bastard 
i have some hard core ebay bidding tonight so im going nowhere 
its mine 
cheers anyway dont forget pics
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Robbo
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dave17
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ive jus had her mum on the phone, she wants me 2 go round there 2mo to chat about things
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ross23
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quote: Originally posted by Robbo
I am stuck bored at home as well 
[Edited on 24-09-2004 by Robbo]
its better than being stuck bored at work!
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--Dave--
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Dave17, things might not be going well at the moment, but guaranteed everything will turn around soon.
One bit of advice though, don't leave your job without at least finding another. Otherwise you're likely to just stay at home and do bugger all.
It might be hard, but get rid of the bint, she obviously doesn't like you like you like her. Move on and like Jase said, spend time with mates and have a good time of it.
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TOMAS
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My advise would be a clean brake if poss. Its a propa head fuck if you go back to just being friends and sex buddies (usually) Its like your left in no mans land, still feel commited to the gurl but she aint wanting it.
Serious as the others have said make sure you have some job security and just be selfish to yourself for a while and keep busy, it usually helps.
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Laney
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quote: Originally posted by --Dave--
Dave17, things might not be going well at the moment, but guaranteed everything will turn around soon.
One bit of advice though, don't leave your job without at least finding another. Otherwise you're likely to just stay at home and do bugger all.
It might be hard, but get rid of the bint, she obviously doesn't like you like you like her. Move on and like Jase said, spend time with mates and have a good time of it.
Agreed.
When I was in this position, I found that I wanted to just sit around. Maybe take a holidy to get away from it all for a bit?
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Andy Stocker
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The answer to the question is yes it can get worse, but it can always get better too
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Ian
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A girl and some points on your licence?
The job I'd worry about - how qualified are you?
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Fad
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mate been there got the t shirt more or less to a "t"
told you beforeshe is a prick teaser just think in afew months u'll be fine...trust me it gets easier...just takes time
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Joff
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Three of those are because of some bit of skirt - get over it.
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Adam-D
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quote: Originally posted by Dave17
ive jus had her mum on the phone, she wants me 2 go round there 2mo to chat about things
bone her mum as revenge 
paul w found a film on that was well funny
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dave17
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update
was arguing with her over txt yesterday (sat) because she was trying to say shed done nothin wrong eventually i made her realise how much of a bitch she was and she apoligised, also asked me 2 stop txtn her so i did. i jus wana leave her alone now, shes caused so much trouble in my life i jus cant stand her, she used to have respect from me, but now she has nothin because of the way shes treated me. shes lost alot of friends over what she has done and is now left with her slut mate who knows half the blokes in croydon
i jus cant take anymore hassle!!
next weekend me an me mates r goin up2 me mates uni to get pished. some girl from up there said shed donate her body to me to make me feel better 
ive been to he recruitment agency, and told them i wanted out of my job, so there looking for something else, and hopefully hooking me up with something in graphic design 
tried going out at the weekend to get pissed an forget about it al, but found i coulb forget an couldn drink properly, hopefully next weekend eh 
ive jus taken up playin football with me mates now aswel, tues, thurs and saturdays so thats a good time waster 
but it is still really hard, as she was my best friend aswel and everthing around me reminds me of her, but end of the day shes a lying slag who deserves no respect from me
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dave17
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Ian:
Education:
September 1996 - March 2003
Langley Park Boys School, Beckenham, Kent
Passes:
9 GCSEs Grade A-C (including Graphic Design Grade B, Fine Art Grade B, English Grade B)
A2 Level in Graphic Design (Grade B), English Literature (Grade D)
AS Level in Fine Art
September 2003 – June 2004
Ravensbourne College of Art and Design, Bromley, Kent
Passed Foundation Diploma In Art and Design, specializing in Visual Communications.
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Pablo
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Head up
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goldfish
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quote: Originally posted by Dave17
think im staring to get seriously depressed. some of u may remember the post about me breaking up with my girlfriend. wel a few week ago, we were basically back 2gether, sleept together twice. thought everything was going fine, then i went round hers one night, an things felt off, so i went home, we didnt speak 4 a few days, then we start txtin and she says we can only b friends. i didnt want that, but i accepted it anyway. wel, yesterday i basically told her i couldn take bein jus friends, and that i wanted her back, she told me theres no chance then i asked for reasons, and one of thme was that shed already slept with some1 2 weeks after we first broke up and what pisses me off is that when we were bk 2geva, we went out 4 a meal, and she looked me in the eye and swore that shed done nothing more than kiss 2 people when she was drunk so now im even more pissed off!
plus, gona quit my job on monday coz it doesnt challenge me and al i think about is danni
plus, i cant get a job in the field i want (graphic design)
plus, im waiting for my court date for speeding
plus, danni likes this person shes sleeping with and knew him while i was with her 
life is fucking shit
FFS stop your moaning and just get on with things. your just sounding like some sorry sad person. I don't give a shit to be honest and I doubt anyone else on here does either
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