J da Silva
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I've just dropped my kids off at their nursery, on entering the doors another kid who attends was having a bit of a hissy fit at his Mum because he wanted a milkyway, went something like this......
Kid: I don't want to go to school Mum, can I have some choc choc's, I want a milkyway mummy.
Mum: Piss off William, your doing my fuckin' head in.
Kid: *Cries*
Mum: C'mon stupid boy get in that fuckin' school
Kid: *More cries* Stop shouting at me
Mum: *Gives kid a right slap across the legs*
I pride myself on the upbringing of my children, they always say please and thanks and if they do something I don't like I explain why it's wrong and offer an alternative thing to do to occupy them, wtf is wrong with some parents?
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mwg
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I hate it when parents like that swear at their children. Then they wonder why turn out to be foul mouthed little sods with no respect for them!
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loubielou
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some parents just dont have a clue and then they wonder why their children misbehave. often, they just give in as in the short term its an easier option but it then becomes a larger problem in the long run. i dont think anyone should swear at their kids no matter how badly they behave, there's other ways of dealing with it and people like that should be shot
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J da Silva
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I'm a very picky parent, my gf is the same and it makes having kids enjoyable because A/ we have easy managable routines and B/ we don't have to worry about our kids playing up or being naughty.
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Kyle T
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I must have been sworn at maybe twice in my whole bringing up, which added weight to the 'swear words' and if I did get swore at - i knew i'd royally fucked up. If that makes sense.
Same with getting a slap, i got nomore than a handful so when I did - It actually meant something.
If you're giving out fucks and slaps every hour - then you've capped yourself and the next step is to drown the little fuckers, which tends to get you in trouble.
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micra_pete
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I hate that, in fact not much winds me up more
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Phi
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i think some people on here were brought up like that 
seriously though people who speak like that well, they shouldnt be parents !
[Edited on 09-12-2008 by Corsa_phi]
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J da Silva
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quote:
Originally posted by Corsa_phi
i think some people on here were brought up like that
seriously though people who speak like that well, they shouldnt be parents !
[Edited on 09-12-2008 by Corsa_phi]
Name and shame Phi.
But yeah, I think some parents go through a 'fad' of wanting a child and then when it learns to walk and talk it becomes a problem they never wanted.
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strick206
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That kid will; grow up and still have his cravings for milkyways, and go hold up the local spar
Disgusting behaviour from the parent of that child
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dannymccann
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quote:
Originally posted by Kyle T
I must have been sworn at maybe twice in my whole bringing up, which added weight to the 'swear words' and if I did get swore at - i knew i'd royally fucked up. If that makes sense.
Same with getting a slap, i got nomore than a handful so when I did - It actually meant something.
If you're giving out fucks and slaps every hour - then you've capped yourself and the next step is to drown the little fuckers, which tends to get you in trouble.
Same here - nail and head tbh
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_Allan_
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Gimme Choc Choc's 
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Shell
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If that is how they speak to a child, their own child at that, i wouldn't want to hear them speak to an adult they disliked
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Jambo
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scummers, this is why communism is flawed.
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J da Silva
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelley
If that is how they speak to a child, their own child at that, i wouldn't want to hear them speak to an adult they disliked
Usually the reaction they would get is a bust face.
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daymoon
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it always disgusted me.! i never heard a swear word from my parents, or any adult even when i was growing up... heard first swear word at 12 or 13 probably... and i was grown by parents who were born in USSR.
edit: i am suprised she called him William, not Benefit.
[Edited on 09-12-2008 by daymoon]
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C2RL R
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parenting must be real difficult. i have no kids or younger siblings so i really can't comment. all i know is the way i was brought up by my folks seems about right.
you have these shitty scummer parents at one end of the scale and then the P.C. brigade telling you what you can't do at the other.i guess you have to just find a midpoint where you teach them respect but also don't be too hard on them. i'm really not looking forward to having kids as i'd hate to make a mess of it.
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J da Silva
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You have to adapt your parenting style to the personality of the child, my little girl is strong willed and she likes to play the 'carer' at home, she'll put me a dummy in and give meher blanket and I have to act as the baby and go to sleep, my little boy is younger and kicks a football around but he follows his sister and watches everything she does, I have never laughed so much in the house before they came along.
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