Mad Moe
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Registered: 14th Jun 01
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I would always hold off saying it as long as possible because I knew from past experiance it would only end in tears. However I told my current partner after 4 weeks and we've been together 3 years next week and things have have never been better realationship wise
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kz
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Registered: 9th Aug 02
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been going out with my girlfriend nine months, both of us said it for the first time last weekend... thing is, im not sure i should of as she aint 'perfect' for me cause she smokes and i fucking hate it 
tbh i dont think i love her as much as ive loved an ex, but it felt like the right thing to say at the time. we were both drunk at a bus stop 
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Bonney
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Registered: 14th Nov 04
Location: St Helens
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Weve sort of been seeing eachother for 2 1/2 months, but properly for about 3 weeks. She said it to me for the first time by text the other night, and also phoned me saying it at daft o'clock in the morning. Shes been away for a week, and comes back on sunday. Sometimes a bit of a break away can work wanders 
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richardworrall
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Registered: 20th Sep 05
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well that went down like a lead balloon, freaked her out but luckily was ok in the end after alot of talking.
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John G
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Registered: 18th Jul 05
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Say it when u mean it, whenever that may be.
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Joe
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Registered: 20th Jun 04
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quote:
Originally posted by richardworrall
well that went down like a lead balloon, freaked her out but luckily was ok in the end after alot of talking.
Sorry but
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richardworrall
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Registered: 20th Sep 05
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quote:
Originally posted by John G
Say it when u mean it, whenever that may be.
i did mean it, just surprised her thats all.
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John
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Registered: 30th Jun 03
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Nearly 33 and you haven't learned yet
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richardworrall
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been divorced 3 years, not dated since almost ten years ago, takes a bit of getting used to after that long
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Antz
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Registered: 28th Jul 03
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Ask her if she knows what love is... has she ever loved anyone... ask her how you know when you love someone... and then ask her if she loves you (only if the conversation seems like it's going that way)... then if she says she's not sure.. tell her you feel something but don't know what it is... then leave it at that... then as time goes by you can kinda build up to telling her that way........
if you undersatnad what I mean ha ha
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Antz
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I see it's too late, I really should rad the thread before replying haha
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richardworrall
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Registered: 20th Sep 05
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shes been in a similar situation, married before and split about 4 months ago, been going out about 2 months now so im pretty sure she knows all about love.
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Antz
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quote:
Originally posted by richardworrall
shes been in a similar situation, married before and split about 4 months ago, been going out about 2 months now so im pretty sure she knows all about love.
I know... but it's to make conversation, test the water, you're not gonna look a tool for asking those questions... IMO.
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Jakey
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Registered: 4th Jun 07
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After about 4months i think.
She said it back straight away and she said she felt the same.
But like its been said, whenever it feels right.
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