strick206
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Originally posted by Hammer
Best bit about it is she doesn't want them 2 back but she's trying for another kid. Complete pollution to society, i'd have her womb ripped out for her behaviour and i dont apologise for saying that.
Completely agree
and rip it out while shes awake
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chloe16v
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i dont under stand ppl who have kids n then dont wanna do anything for them or treat them like shit, i have 3 kids who i love to death n wouldnt let anything hurt them even tho they r little brats at times 
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swedge
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condoms are cheaper than nappies imo
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strick206
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3 kids at 21, Jesus, you've been busy 
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Mike
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Originally posted by Hammer
The 2 we have just now both have been taking regular fits when they get too warm which is being attributed to under development of their kidneys i think it is. You just know the mother has been taking smack or something similar during pregnancy.
Best bit about it is she doesn't want them 2 back but she's trying for another kid. Complete pollution to society, i'd have her womb ripped out for her behaviour and i dont apologise for saying that.
Well said, how has any kid got a chance in life with a mother like that, she's already got 2 kids that she doesn't want yet is trying for another, it's as if these people get kicks out of recking kids lives, then once they've done damage, they're not interested anymore 
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Hammer
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Originally posted by Russ
money is decent tbh, tax free. take home more if you have older kids
if money is your main reason for fostering your in the wrong job
(not meaning you btw)
All the money in the world won't prepare you for some of the things you come up against tbh, it's not a glorified babysitting service.
My old dear has watched this sister and brother since Olivia was basically just born and Darren was 1. They've been with us for about 2 years and now we're just about to go through the cattle market of adoption. I dread to think the state my mum will get in the day they're taken away tbh.
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BluKoo
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My auntie and uncle adopted 2 kids 2 years ago. Ryan who is 6 and Natasha who is 8. They're the coolest kids ever.
Seemed to have no problem fitting in to the family and settling down.
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CorsAsh
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Originally posted by strick206
3 kids at 21, Jesus, you've been busy
There's fuck all to do in South Yorkshire.
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chloe16v
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there is loads to do in s yorks tbh, theres meadowhall (altho it had to be shut the other day coz of bomb)
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Russ
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i disagree, it iss a job a the end of the day.you'd find very few foster carers who do it for the kids, they just prefer to work from home and get paid good for it. just my opinion, not all foster carers.
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swedge
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if they went to whoever controls fostering and said they want the job because the moneys good and like working from home i think they would be told to fuck off
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Hammer
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Put it this way if my mum had her way we'd be living like little house on the prairie with kids sleeping in drawers. She's tried and failed to keep every single kid shes had here.
There's a picture of every single kid she's childminded/fostered/godmothered/auntied/looked at sideways in the hall, we're going to need a bigger hall fairly soon 
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strick206
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How come they won't let her adopt the kids hammer?
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swedge
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quote:
Originally posted by Hammer
Put it this way if my mum had her way we'd be living like little house on the prairie with kids sleeping in drawers. She's tried and failed to keep every single kid shes had here.
There's a picture of every single kid she's childminded/fostered/godmothered/auntied/looked at sideways in the hall, we're going to need a bigger hall fairly soon
lol build a wall outside lol
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Hammer
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Not allowed to Strick, i don't know if that's a universal law but it's one the social work dept we deal with refuse to waiver on. Partly for her own sake as well as we would end up keeping every one and you can't let the emotional attachment over ride the fact there are thousands of couples out there that can't have kids that could give them a great quality of family life.
[Edited on 18-03-2008 by Hammer]
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LeeM
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god parents have 2 kids of their own, and foster 3 at the minute. one of them works full time the other part time, both good jobs so its nothing to do with the money. they love th kids
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strick206
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Originally posted by Hammer
Not allowed to Strick, i don't know if that's a universal law but it's one the social work dept we deal with refuse to waiver on. Partly for her own sake as well as we would end up keeping every one and you can't let the emotional attachment over ride the fact there are thousands of couples out there that can't have kids that could give them a great quality of family life.
[Edited on 18-03-2008 by Hammer]
I suppose i can see the sense behind that tbh, massive respect for anyone that can do that kind of thing though (fostering) 
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Hammer
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Originally posted by lee_wee
god parents have 2 kids of their own, and foster 3 at the minute. one of them works full time the other part time, both good jobs so its nothing to do with the money. they love th kids
Yip my mum works as a full time childminder and my dad is a contracts supervisor for a building company as well as still working on the tools at the weekend.
Social work offer you just about everything from Digital Cameras, furniture, Computers anything really and they've refused the lot.
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sand-eel
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poor guy must of had a really bad 10years
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