Haimsey
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Boy has his priorities sorted out  Car > Sex > GF/Baby
Marcy Marc 
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_Allan_
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taylorboosh
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firstly she was meant to be on pill but i have been sleeping with her since we split and she said she had came off as she didnt need to be on, second she says shes late, third she refused docs or test, so i assume shes talking shite
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Mad Moe
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What ever you do dont fuck her again, ever!
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taylorboosh
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i wont, i think i will be on the pull friday like
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Jules S
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Originally posted by corsabadboy
firstly she was meant to be on pill but i have been sleeping with her since we split and she said she had came off as she didnt need to be on, second she says shes late, third she refused docs or test, so i assume shes talking shite
Oh dear,
I've heard that myself in the past.
I don't think you can automatically 'assume' she is talking shite, however you both need to ascertain the facts before you 'both' make a decision on what to do...and that means a test to confirm matters.
If you are 19 and she is 17, i would seriously consider a termination (and i hear what you say shelly) but it seems you are too young and can't offer a stable environment to bring a kid up.
/10pence worth
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strick206
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you are both to young, get rid imo
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Russ
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as much as i agree with shelly i agree with jules 
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SVM 286
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Oh dear.
Abstainance, contraception, bum sex, oral sex, or just plain not being a big old slag.
Five intriguingly different ways of not fucking up the rest of one's life, or at least altering the course of it monumentally and irretrievably.
Why not give at least one of em a try. 
Edit: Six ways if you include blowing your fat all over her face/tits/arse instead of in her growler.
[Edited on 29-01-2008 by SVM 286]
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Colin
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Glad im not you.
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SVM 286
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Colin, was that aimed at me or thread author?
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Jodi_the_g
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Originally posted by Shelly
FFS your talking about a little life... the most precious thing you can ever imagine.
Sorry but I have very strong views on this kind of thing.
Your old enough to have sex, your old enough to deal with the outcome of it. If your not then you shouldn't be having sex...
Its not a life yet in the eyes of the law.
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Shelly
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Originally posted by Russ
as much as i agree with shelly i agree with jules
I agree that if you make the decision that your both too young and it's not going to be right for the child then fair enough. But, it's not like a piece of litter, it requires a lot more thinking than that.
I would be scared stiff if I was pregnant to someone who was fucking about and didn't know what they wanted. You must realise that women have feelings and they are carrying the child, they get attached to it even when it's not out in the big wide world.
The point I was making was it's a little person you could be bringing into the world, not "oh I will have to sell my car now". Some things are more important and that kind of attitude stinks IMO.
"she was on the pill"... being sick can make your pill not work and throws the whole thing out of sync ... takes two to tango and two to be careful...
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Hoddo
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by Russ
as much as i agree with shelly i agree with jules
I agree that if you make the decision that your both too young and it's not going to be right for the child then fair enough. But, it's not like a piece of litter, it requires a lot more thinking than that.
I would be scared stiff if I was pregnant to someone who was fucking about and didn't know what they wanted. You must realise that women have feelings and they are carrying the child, they get attached to it even when it's not out in the big wide world.
The point I was making was it's a little person you could be bringing into the world, not "oh I will have to sell my car now". Some things are more important and that kind of attitude stinks IMO.
"she was on the pill"... being sick can make your pill not work and throws the whole thing out of sync ... takes two to tango and two to be careful...
agreed.
if you cant take responsibility as regards to having sex then you are her are not responsible enough to have a kid.
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Blade_sri
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Originally posted by willay
start a family with her and regret it when you are 30.
good advice
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gsi-gaz
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Originally posted by loafofbrett
Holy Shit, 17!  Get rid of it FFS, neither of you are responsible enough.
TUTUTUT!
people like this make me sick!
a mate of mine no to long ago was told he only has a 80% chance of kids yet there are people like his about!
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RyanSxi
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quote:
Originally posted by gsi-gaz
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Originally posted by loafofbrett
Holy Shit, 17! Get rid of it FFS, neither of you are responsible enough.
TUTUTUT!
people like this make me sick!
a mate of mine no to long ago was told he only has a 80% chance of kids yet there are people like his about!
Theres no point in people brining a child into this world if they arn't going to be able to look after them.
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Mad Moe
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quote:
Originally posted by gsi-gaz
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Originally posted by loafofbrett
Holy Shit, 17! Get rid of it FFS, neither of you are responsible enough.
TUTUTUT!
people like this make me sick!
a mate of mine no to long ago was told he only has a 80% chance of kids yet there are people like his about!
Why does he make you feel sick? Can you honestly say that at 17 years old your mentally and physically mature enough to cope with brining up a child and that not even taking into account the financial implications.
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Shane
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my mum and dad was both 17, my mum was also in a kids home at the time, i wouldnt say ive turned out to bad, my mum managed on her own when my dad fucked off,
you need to get the pregnancy confirmed, then you both need to talk over your options if it comes back positive
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danielleG
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personally sounds like she is lying...but as for the comments about being too young.....i fell preggers when i was 17, it was planned by both me and his dad, we were together for 6 years and had another child when I was 20. I have never once claimed benefits and we both work damn hard to support our children (both have well paying jobs too), ok looking back now I wish I had waited but I never relied on anyone to look after or pay for my kids and they are happy little creatures, but i can truly say i wouldn't recommend it or do it again
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Colin
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Originally posted by SVM 286
thread author
Couldnt be arsed reading 4 pages
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dan_c4rsa
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quote:
Originally posted by corsabadboy
right heres the deal,
i finished the gf about 3 weeks ago as it just wasnt working, in this 3 weeks i have slept with another girl which she knows about and doesnt mind, she hasnt did anything with anyone.
i have missed her like mad, even tho i have slept with her a few times over the weeks also, she gave a lad on msn her number and i hate the fact. but i love being single
now the added stress,
she hasnt turned yet and thinks she may just be pregers
wtf should i do, she wants to get back
any help appreciated
pray that when its born its black.
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Jay
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Isnt it too early to tell yet? I mean you only split up with her 3 weeks ago, so in theory its only about 1-2 weeks shes been pregnant. Reckon shes just saying it to get back with you, shes your ex for a reason, remember them reasons why she is.
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Lawrah
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throw her down the stair..
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Steve
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if it hasnt been mentioned, knitting needle
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