Colin
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Sounds like a good mate, who needs enemys eh
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Jules S
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So are you sure about the facts here Monster?
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Scotty C
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quote: Originally posted by Jules S
So are you sure about the facts here Monster?
Indeed I am, She seemed like she needed ALOT of reasureance that I wouldn't say anything. And I've heard it from someone else.
[Edited on 22-01-2008 by Monster]
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Jules S
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quote: Originally posted by Monster
quote: Originally posted by Jules S
So are you sure about the facts here Monster?
Indeed I am, She seemed like she needed ALOT of reasureance that I wouldn't say anything. And I've heard it from someone else.
[Edited on 22-01-2008 by Monster]
Sad news.
When I first read your post I would have concluded she was lying to get attention...I never believe anybody that tells me something and then says....'but FFS dont tell anybody if i tell you'
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Scotty C
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Never thought about it that way Jules. I'll be teaching him a leason though 
[Edited on 22-01-2008 by Monster]
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C2RL R
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yes that would really piss me off. i'd probably just laugh at her because it would wind her up if she thinks you dont care. he, on the other hand, would no longer be classed as a mate.
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Jules S
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quote: Originally posted by Monster
Never thought about it that way Jules. I'll be teaching him a leason though 
[Edited on 22-01-2008 by Monster]
Hey, its your choice on that mate 
I dunno though (no offence to the women on here) it just seems to me that a few lies from females go a long way to wind blokes up....and IME females are happy to drop the odd 'white' lie here and there.
If you are sure that he has done the dirty deed, I would 'have a word'
IE: Punch him in the throat...multiple and hard
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Scotty C
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I would Jules, but hes in the army and quite buff, and knows how to shoot guns 
On a serious note, like C2RL R said, I can't show I give a toss TBH, because I know whats she's like, and she'll proberly think I still have feelings for her.
Will be having a word though
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corsa - gus
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straight shot to the bone! should fix both of them
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jamez_zz
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quote: Originally posted by Monster

I would Jules, but hes in the army and quite buff, and knows how to shoot guns 
On a serious note, like C2RL R said, I can't show I give a toss TBH, because I know whats she's like, and she'll proberly think I still have feelings for her.
Will be having a word though
Exactly. Doesnt mean he can fight, kick him in the nacker bag!
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Scotty C
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It was only a joke 
Wont be settling with violence, just a little chat, preferably in front of his misses, then part ways.
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Ryan_G1
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Shag his maw
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Scotty C
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I think my misses may have something to say about that
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Robin
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I must be the only person who doesn't see an issue here?
She's your ex, who she sleeps with now/since you split up is no concern of yours, you'd split up with her, and who your mate sleeps with isn't any of your business either, even if it is your ex.
I understand that you have a kid with her, but surely if he's your mate, he's an alright bloke, ie. not a complete psycho, and that's better than her shagging some random bloke from the pub who she doesn't even know, and putting your daughter at risk?
I'd be more concerned about the fact that he'd made a pass at the current gf than that he'd been sleeping with the ex.
I don't mean that to sound nasty in any way Scott, but I don't see why you need to 'have a word' with him...
[Edited on 23-01-2008 by Robin]
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dannymccann
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I agree with what Robin says, I was about to post something similar till I had a read through
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C2RL R
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his mate should have talked about it with him first though.
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Robbo
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quote: Originally posted by Cosmo
quote: Originally posted by Monster
I completly understand she is a single women, but surely she knew she was doing wrong sleeping with her daughters dad's best mate!
I dont think she is the one to be having a word with, she no longer had any loyalties towards you. Your mate though, now that is a different story.
Agreed
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Edd
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made a pass at your current GF and he's still your friend?
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quote: Originally posted by Edd
made a pass at your current GF and he's still your friend?
just dont answer his calls or anything and fuk him off, then when u bump into him just tell him you know what he did and you dont wana know him anymore...
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Tom
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His mate has a bird himself also 
I'd just fuck him off, I've fucked 'mates' off for less.
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Adam-D
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quote: Originally posted by Cosmo
TBH he wouldnt be a mate of mine after that.
what he said
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Adam-D
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and the ex deserves a swift kick in the minge. as it takes 2 she obviosly didnt give a shit either..
im more worried about the little-un poor kid
no child deserves to be messed up like that.
ps im not blameing you monster, you cant controll how life goes.
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Scotty C
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quote: Originally posted by Robin
I must be the only person who doesn't see an issue here?
She's your ex, who she sleeps with now/since you split up is no concern of yours, you'd split up with her, and who your mate sleeps with isn't any of your business either, even if it is your ex.
I understand that you have a kid with her, but surely if he's your mate, he's an alright bloke, ie. not a complete psycho, and that's better than her shagging some random bloke from the pub who she doesn't even know, and putting your daughter at risk?
I'd be more concerned about the fact that he'd made a pass at the current gf than that he'd been sleeping with the ex.
I don't mean that to sound nasty in any way Scott, but I don't see why you need to 'have a word' with him...
[Edited on 23-01-2008 by Robin]
Good points made. But it isn't just a random ex that I saw for a week, if this was the case I wouldn't give a fuck and just laugh. It's more the point that I was with her for four years, lived together, and then he puts getting his dick wet before a mate. He must know hes done wrong or he wasen't of said ''please, please don't tell Scott''
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Scotty C
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quote: Originally posted by Edd
made a pass at your current GF and he's still your friend?
Well, I let someone off once, just once, and he was a completely fooked, I mean, he slept in my garden in the rain he was that fcuked. But hes done it again, so i'll just ignore him, and if he asks, i'll tell him.
quote: Originally posted by Adam-D
and the ex deserves a swift kick in the minge. as it takes 2 she obviosly didnt give a shit either..
im more worried about the little-un poor kid
no child deserves to be messed up like that.
ps im not blameing you monster, you cant controll how life goes.
She wasen't messed up at all, if she was I would of went on one..
My daughter never even got to meet the guy, thank god.
[Edited on 23-01-2008 by Monster]
[Edited on 23-01-2008 by Monster]
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