rustyarchs
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Originally posted by rustyarchs
its slowly changeing,unmarried fathers are getting more rights
up until last year my parents had more rights to see my kids than i had, my names on both birth certs (same woman by the way lol) always paid support for them,never done them or my ex any wrong yet cos she took the huff i didnt get to see them, was with her until lucas was 2 then hayden came along and we split up and only seen them 4 times in the first year,5 times in the 2nd and up until bout 4 months back had not seen them at all this year until she got a boyfriend and wanted me to babysit them on a sat nite 
now i get them once every week so its a lot better 
How do you cope mate??
I miss Elise when she is Nursery.. I cant wait to pick her up after work. Thank god me and the Mrs are still together.
didnt at first, went through all the depression and heartache but luckily iv got a good family who suported me all the way
wouldnt wish it on anyone, anyone who has seen what a women scorned is capable of aint seen nothing till a kid is involved 
my uncle has it worse than me, he has seen his son who is now 2 years old i think 3 times since birth, pays csa every week buys presents all the time and gives them to his ex for the kid(with her for 4 years,nice women till she got pregnant btw then ended it with him before his son was born)
its a shitty old world sometimes
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Tom
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The system is shit both ways.
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Jamie Walby
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Originally posted by rustyarchs
the stuff some fathers will do to see there kids when after years the court system does liitle if not nothing,least these guys tried to get publicity and change the system rather than the ones that accept it give in and commit suicide
everything else had failed,the family act was set up in 1989 and it was not until over 10 years later f4j was set up to try and do something about the system, without f4j chances are nothing would have changed
heck maybe in a few years some of the lads on this site could be fucked over by an ex and refused access to there own kids
see how funny it is then
Thats fair enough but there are surely more responsible ways of trying to get access to your kids.
If it was other way round, I was father and that was my kids wife at top of a tall statue, I wouldnt be too keen on my kids spending time with her.
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Danny W
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Originally posted by Jamie Walby
Thats fair enough but there are surely more responsible ways of trying to get access to your kids.
If it was other way round, I was father and that was my kids wife at top of a tall statue, I wouldnt be too keen on my kids spending time with her.
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Originally posted by Ian
I think the campaign is more about the wider issues than his personal outcome. He can't change his case alone.
 thumbs up to the guy, the legal system is crap and imo at least these guys have the balls to stand up & get noticed
[Edited on 11-10-2006 by Danny W]
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rustyarchs
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Originally posted by Jamie Walby
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Originally posted by rustyarchs
the stuff some fathers will do to see there kids when after years the court system does liitle if not nothing,least these guys tried to get publicity and change the system rather than the ones that accept it give in and commit suicide
everything else had failed,the family act was set up in 1989 and it was not until over 10 years later f4j was set up to try and do something about the system, without f4j chances are nothing would have changed
heck maybe in a few years some of the lads on this site could be fucked over by an ex and refused access to there own kids
see how funny it is then
Thats fair enough but there are surely more responsible ways of trying to get access to your kids.
If it was other way round, I was father and that was my kids wife at top of a tall statue, I wouldnt be too keen on my kids spending time with her.
there was more responsible ways yes, they often took years and many thousands of pounds though before anything solid happend
f4j tried to highlight what it was like for the father and get publicity and on this front they did what they set out to do
why? surely it would show that your ex wife cared and was willing to fight for the right to see her kids rather than just turn there back on them and walk away to start a new life without them 
end of the day f4j didnt go out to harm anyone it was all big publicity stunts and the worst that happend was tony blair getting coverd in purple powder rumors of kidnapping tony blairs son have never been proven but it did cause the leader to shut down the group just in case right wingers inside them were getting serious
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Jamie Walby
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Maybe like you said its because I dont know what its like to not see my kids, maybe one day i will experience this. Until then im going to stick to my opinion.
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rustyarchs
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your opinion buddy and i hope it never needs to change
stu
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Jamie Walby
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Stu? I always assumed your name was Rusty
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rustyarchs
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long story with a clio i used to own
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