Woollard
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you say she aint like that mate but how much do u know her to be honest. soemone can be very nice but still be evil as hell when it suits them. Also mate, she wants to have her cake and eat it it sounds like to me. cos she syas you have grown apart but is still saying we'll see what happen in a week or so. Thats just wrong, its keeping the link there,you'll be sitting there wondering whats guna happen and it will be hell. Ask yourself honestly, why would you wanna be with someone who has any doubt in their mind whether they wanna be with you or not. She obviously doesnt love you cos if she did she would never do what she is doing right now, which is making u feel like shit!!!
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Antz
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Well, spend £10 on fuel to go see Alison tonight for her to tell me as soon as I get there that we had grown apart and it wasn't gonna work for much longer, she said she wanted to end it tonight cos it was just gonna happen next week!
I couldn't stop crying all the way home from her house! I feel like I've been kicked in my stomach, I thrown up, god I'm a fucking wreck!
I think I loved her you guys, I really do 
I think your crying because you know your not going to have sex with a woman for free for a while 
TBH, I just went to do the weekly shop and all the way round Asda I was thinking, fuck what about sex?... what am I gonna do now??
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Woollard
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hahahaha!! quality
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Antz
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As much as I want her back I think if I don't get her back it won't be too bad, it was just these first few hours that have been bad... thinking about it now, god knows what I'll do without her but I'll manage, I just hope to god I get her back 
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Woollard
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you obviosuly feel for her in a big way mate. good luck, i cant imagine how bad i would feel if i lost my girlfriend,must be so so hard.
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SetH
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after reading whats happened imo you should not get back with her.
getting back with her is taking the easy and possibly cowardly way out.
Not getting back with her is the harder, but more sensible route and you will end up stronger for it.
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Antz
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Thing is, we have been happy together, that's why I never saw it coming, even the past few days has been good, fun and all that... it just seemed to happen all at once...
I want her back cos we are happy together and she even saidwe are happy together... I wanna live my life been happy, and sharing my happiness with someone, the more time I spend single the more I'll be down.
Maybe if there was a 'real' reason for this break up I'd not be bothered, but I am, and I think we should get back together and be happy again...
I just need to convince her of this, just not sure of the right way to go about it...
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Jason
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maybe she needs a bita space, give her 2-3 days no contact then send her a txt if she replys and is genuinely interested in what ur saying give it another go, if not fuk her!
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Cheers guys, you really are great people!!!
My only worry is that if I leave it that long Dom, she may find someone else, not some one better than me, of course ... you know what I'm saying?
Chris_uk 
i dont bloody think so
anyway ant, sorry to hear this... but comeone.. you have been single for a long time ... just think of all the stuff we have done without birds! remember when we set the pavement on fire when we was kids.. with polystyrene... those were the days.. dont worry about her.. yes she looked alrite, but she was a little annoying.. her and that green monster.. imean wtf was all that about..
if i was you i would just leave her alone.. send her a txt saying if you need me you know where i am.. as someone said she split up with you and gave a shitty reason so if she wants you back let her do the chasing.. at least you will know then that she really does want you, if you talk her into it you will think everything is all good but really she will be having 2nd thoughts once a couple weeks has passed.
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Woollard
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agree with chris uk totally. if she wants to be with you she will realise it, dont force the matter.
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K2 GTi
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Mate, you wil feel bad for a few days/weeks even months. But you will get over her it happens to us all sometimes. And as for what she said, don't mean to sound bad... but that's what people say when they're bored or found someone else.
Chin up and there is PLENTY more girls out there trust me.
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Skinz
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The worst thing you could do is pester her, leave her and then she will come to you. Trust me it works.
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The worst thing you could do is pester her, leave her and then she will come to you. Trust me it works.
She will only come to him if she still likes him. 
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Half Pint
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give it a week and she'll probably come running back, just don't go running up to her !!
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sunnyb
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i reckon she's shaggin chris_uk!!! ha ha hard luck mate dont cry about it tho, just make it worse. spend time with ya mates they'll help ya unless its chris_uk!!
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i reckon she's shaggin chris_uk!!! ha ha hard luck mate dont cry about it tho, just make it worse. spend time with ya mates they'll help ya unless its chris_uk!!
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Mikorsa16v
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My missus who i was going out with for 2 years, has been very rough recently, I am now in Denmark with work and she said right your away on a trip so im single I told her to GTF and said erm, it doesnt work like that.
She was saying/asking why am I taking a work trip (only for a week mind) when i could be with her, selfish bitch alert, she can GTFGTFGTFGTF
[Edited on 16-08-2005 by Mikorsa16v]
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Danny P
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Trying to get back with her will only push her away more
Leave her, get on with YOUR life, you never know she might start to miss you and wanna get back with you
[Edited on 16-08-2005 by Danny P]
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Simon
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I broke up with my gf bout a month ago, was coming up to being 2 years(escaped having to buy that present haha) I just thought fuck this im 20 im single, it aint the end of the world, and im loving single life again, having a great time. Try it
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Antz
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well, went out to drowned my sorrows, got into a fight, the mother fucker bit me... what a cunt..
I had the police out to, they were cunts, I was found wonderin round town, the took me home my hand is battered, my shoulder is fucked and I have a massiuve fucking bite mark on my shoulder...
WHAT A CUNT!!!!!!!!!!!
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