Matt H
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Isn't it the school holidays at the mo? 
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Antz
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Originally posted by Matt H
Isn't it the school holidays at the mo?
Nope, was last week up her, unless the yget 2 weeks off... I think they are deffo back now though up here!
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Antz
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At least she made it to the toilet.
Have a quiet word with her tomorrow, don't get anyone involved and she'll maybe respect you for it, not telling mummy n all that.
If she's been sick you can probably still smell the alcohol on her in the morning.
Don't tell your mum, that's harsh, although i do not condone underage drinking 
Yeah think I'm gonna do that... after all I did it when I was their age, maybe wish I'd have left it a bit longer, and that's what I'm gonna say to her.
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Matt H
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I think its good how your trying to look out for them, but I think that if you try & tell them not to drink etc then she will tell you to GTF
Its a part of growing up mate. Let her get on with it but keep a close eye on her 
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bradfincham
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well said matty bouy!
id seriously say summin though, make sure she knows ure upset with her and just tell her she will have nothing to look forward to in the future!
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CorsAsh
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slip some rohypnol into a bottle of smirnoff and give her that. She'll learn the dangers soon enough...
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Antz
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Originally posted by Matt H
I think its good how your trying to look out for them, but I think that if you try & tell them not to drink etc then she will tell you to GTF
Its a part of growing up mate. Let her get on with it but keep a close eye on her
thing is, I never had anyone to look out for me, my brother didn't give a fuck... maybe if I just have one quiet word with her then she'll listen... and I won't have to keep my eye on her cos she'll have a bit moe sense...... I dunno what to do now 
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Matt H
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Originally posted by bradfincham
and just tell her she will have nothing to look forward to in the future!
Except a good seeing too from me & her sister in 2 years time
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Antz
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Originally posted by CorsAsh
slip some rohypnol into a bottle of smirnoff and give her that. She'll learn the dangers soon enough...
Oh yeah, I have a packet of that from the weekend still... I'll give her it tomorrow... 
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Antz
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and just tell her she will have nothing to look forward to in the future!
Except a good seeing too from me & her sister in 2 years time
You'll be so old you'd rather have a cuppa than a wank in a few years, let alone give them a seeing to
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Matt H
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I'll be 22. Im not that farkin old
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Antz
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Originally posted by Matt H
I'll be 22. Im not that farkin old
and you lie, I bet you're 45 pretending to be 22 so you can rape and pilliage the young impressionable CorsaSport females
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Matt H
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Im 20. Honest 
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Paul_J
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Originally posted by Matt H
I think its good how your trying to look out for them, but I think that if you try & tell them not to drink etc then she will tell you to GTF
Its a part of growing up mate. Let her get on with it but keep a close eye on her
exactly... my sister was older than me - so there was no older bro to tell her not to do things. How would you of liked it as you were growing up people telling you not to.
As matt says, by saying don't do it - it'll only make em do it more. IF you actually go ok, sure do it - but just try not to drink to excess, they may go ok then.
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Paul_J
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My parents were laid back with me, let me do whatever I want and I learnt my own boundaries / not to be a twat. I think if they were going 'no you can't go out', 'no don't drink', 'no don't do this' - I'd have felt I must of rebelled against them and thus done it to excess when I got the chance.
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Antz
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Originally posted by Matt H
I think its good how your trying to look out for them, but I think that if you try & tell them not to drink etc then she will tell you to GTF
Its a part of growing up mate. Let her get on with it but keep a close eye on her
exactly... my sister was older than me - so there was no older bro to tell her not to do things. How would you of liked it as you were growing up people telling you not to.
As matt says, by saying don't do it - it'll only make em do it more. IF you actually go ok, sure do it - but just try not to drink to excess, they may go ok then.
Yeah, I'm not gonn tell them not to, I'm just gonna ask them to do it on a weekend, and not let it interfere with school, I really want them to do well at school, cos I didn't, and the teachers have no faith in them cos of me...
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bradfincham
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Originally posted by Paul_J
My parents were laid back with me, let me do whatever I want and I learnt my own boundaries / not to be a twat. I think if they were going 'no you can't go out', 'no don't drink', 'no don't do this' - I'd have felt I must of rebelled against them and thus done it to excess when I got the chance.
apart from drive fast on the m25
sorry paul had to be said
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Corsa E-Tec
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at least she made it to the toilet, i drank a bottle of hock at my mates when i was 14 and collapsed in his bush
clean up after her, have a quite word, shell owe u one then and respect you for being allright about it. thats what big brothers are for 
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Paul_J
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Originally posted by bradfincham
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Originally posted by Paul_J
My parents were laid back with me, let me do whatever I want and I learnt my own boundaries / not to be a twat. I think if they were going 'no you can't go out', 'no don't drink', 'no don't do this' - I'd have felt I must of rebelled against them and thus done it to excess when I got the chance.
apart from drive fast on the m25
sorry paul had to be said
It was M23, but thats my dads fault, I grew up with him racing cars (pic of me in a paper standing next to all the drivers when I was about 3 lol) ... but he used to drive fast everywhere ... got speeding convictions over his whole license Also has been banned before. Lets just say either its a gene (my uncles are the same) ... or I've just learnt by example
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Antz
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Originally posted by Corsa E-Tec
at least she made it to the toilet, i drank a bottle of hock at my mates when i was 14 and collapsed in his bush
clean up after her, have a quite word, shell owe u one then and respect you for being allright about it. thats what big brothers are for
I did clean it up, it splashed on the wall a bit and the floor... thought I was gonna throw my self ... I kinda wanna tell my mum cos I want her to know how wrong it is..... but I'm not gonna cos I did it all when I was that age...
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Originally posted by Corsa E-Tec
at least she made it to the toilet, i drank a bottle of hock at my mates when i was 14 and collapsed in his bush
clean up after her, have a quite word, shell owe u one then and respect you for being allright about it. thats what big brothers are for
I threw up into a mate's dad's Slipper But didn't know about it till my mate told me a few days later his dad wasn't happy when his dad put his slippers on Also wrecked that guys carpet in the loo
but its all part of growing up. thinking about it I used to go to loads of house parties when I was around 14, those were the days where 4 cans would leave you pretty gone and 6 would = throwing up
Personally I think it's better to do that now, rather than like a girl who lives near me - who her mum was so strict, kept her in all the time, made her study hard all the time. Then when she got the chance to get away / get independance She just turned into the biggest Slut! sleeping with anything and everything and Getting absolutely wrecked on every drink / drug she could find! Rebelling against her parents fair enough, but its just not needed. Plus coz her body wasn't used to the alcohol I think she nearly put her self in hospital (or may have even put herself in hospital) a couple of times.
Paul J
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yer i rebelled at 14 and got wasted, then me mum had enough, and said do what u want, got bored after 2 months and stopped getting drunk.
antz, if you really wanna teach her a lesson, get her to do your ironing for a week
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Antz
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yer i rebelled at 14 and got wasted, then me mum had enough, and said do what u want, got bored after 2 months and stopped getting drunk.
antz, if you really wanna teach her a lesson, get her to do your ironing for a week
My dad won't let ANYONE do the ironing, that's his job, no matter what, he does the ironing, anyone else touches it and damn.... don't tell dad you used HIS iron
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