I have similar, I am really good mates with this girl, so far as to say best mates.

We ended up shagging and shit, tried relationship, then called it off, trying just shagging when we need to now and see how it goes, but personally I would still be happy if she found someone she was happy with.

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the full stop monster strikes again!!

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sounds like a woman to me!

this has recently happened to me but it was a 7 year relationship. She just totally chucked me to the side after being there for her 24/7 for 7 years.

I reckon over reacting a bit, did she know that you wanted to chat and needed her company at the time?

I wouldn't say you can base a friendship on the fact that your gonna get something back every time you give.

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seriously tho, seen it all happen b4, over reacting at this point in time

the full stop monster strikes again!!

If you are MATES as u say then u were doing a MATE thing and being there for her when she needed you, probably acting weird coz she dont wanna hurt ur feelings! !

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rite basically heres how it is, me and best m8, been practically unseprable since her and her ex broke up which was messy an still goes on to this day, rite so she says she'll never end up meetin another boy tidy cos shes goin 2 NZ soon, i dont see her with a week an shes startd goin out with a few other ppl, i didnt mind tha, but she startd acting really wierd, rushing to get off the fone etc etc, found out tonight now shes been seein one of the ppl shes recently startd goin out with an without telling me basically droped me on my arse after bein ther for her for 5 months solid wen she needed me, an wen i need her now shes nowher 2 be seen, am i overreacting or has she dun me right ova

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i had the same problem, i let her get on with it, didnt contact her or owt, then when it all goes wrong agen i let her suffer on her own to realise wat she had done

wouldn't say your over reacting..you've been there for this girl during hard times but as soon as she finds a bf she dumps you..

Not a true friend m8..

no bother mate, I just wasted 1 yrs friendship this week lol

ye, what a waste of 3 yrs friendship eh

give her space and watch who u get close too in the future mate

ye think thas wa i'll do cheers ian, i got alot on my plate at the mo an wen i needed her 2nite 4 a chat she wern nowher 2 b seen, but 2 later get told o i was out with laura smokin drugs it really gets 2 me

shes not a real mate then

no, but practically yes, she luved me i luved her did all the bf gf stuff, i n pissd off bout the bf thing jus wen she tells me i luv u ur my best m8 in the world an she then doesnt even tell me tha shes seein sum1 feels like im worthless

FRIENDS, they do this to you! and she isnt attatched to you

No you've been there for her when it mattered and now she's simply distracted elsewhere.

If she's happy then let her have that. At least you can sit back in the knowledge that you contributed to that having not given to receive!

but u werent going out tho?

rite basically heres how it is, me and best m8, been practically unseprable since her and her ex broke up which was messy an still goes on to this day, rite so she says she'll never end up meetin another boy tidy cos shes goin 2 NZ soon, i dont see her with a week an shes startd goin out with a few other ppl, i didnt mind tha, but she startd acting really wierd, rushing to get off the fone etc etc, found out tonight now shes been seein one of the ppl shes recently startd goin out with an without telling me basically droped me on my arse after bein ther for her for 5 months solid wen she needed me, an wen i need her now shes nowher 2 be seen, am i overreacting or has she dun me right ova