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[quote][i]Originally posted by willay[/i] I'm having a few problems with the end of a relationship. It was a mutual breakup (although maybe a little more from my side than hers) a month or so ago. She suffers various psychological problems and I've been helping her deal with them as best I can for the last couple of years, but unfortunately a recent bout of reckless behaviour was too much for me to take. I don't know if that makes me a bad person or not. So I discussed with her the idea of taking some time, I figured probably a lot of time, away from each other, and we agreed it might be for the best. She moved back in with her mother. It was hard at first, but was then made harder after I heard from one of her friends that, in just two weeks, she'd met and moved in with a random guy from the internet. Real stable huh? The problem now is not knowing what to do/think. Part of me is thinking "whew, now some other sap has to deal with her", but mostly it's pretty upsetting. I still love her - the relationship was surprisingly good but for the insanity , and I am worried about her. She always used to forget her medication if I wasn't there, stopped going to therapy sessions (part of the recklessness I mentioned) and can be very unstable. I know I'm not her carer and she'll do what she wants, but it doesn't sound like she's stable at all and could use help. She doesn't really have family apart from her mother. I must have checked her Myspace 100 times in the last two weeks, hoping for a sign she's all right, all that's there is a bunch of gibberish, and now I'm beginning to obsess. This is getting a bit waffly, so basically - does anyone have any experience/advice for dealing with mentally ill ex's? I'm caught in two minds whether to sever completely, suck it up and let someone else deal with her, or make a real effort to get in touch with her and see what the hell is going on. The 90% of the time she's well she's wonderful [/quote]
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