u can also get aerial connectors from motorworld / halfords etc

if you look on the back of the iso block (connected to the car got loadsa wires coming out of it theres 3 blocks ye? larger one on top of two smaller ones, have a look on the power iso that has, black, red, brown wires coming out and there should be in that block a red and grey wire, just cut this and your mfd will show the time and date when your using the headunit

the aerial for the radio isn't plugged in anyway (because the radio shows up by the clock at the top doesn't it) I didn't plug the aerial in because it was a different fitment!

tape up the automatic aerial pin on the heaadunit or the plug that goes into it. Problem solved and no wire cutting.

their wasn't any grey/red wire I could see? is it def their?

You cut it, not 'hook it up'.

I've taken out the standard tape player and put another one in but their's suppsoed to be a grey/red wire which I need to hook up to the new tape player for the clocks to work! I can't see it on the loom, is that the right colours? Someone on here's bound to have dun this before surely? Its a P reg 1.2 thing. Any ideas?