Jodi_the_g
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she could of had what ever she wanted, but barmiads are worth shit if they can't pour a pint
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troubled_corsa
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i feel you are still outraged and steam is comin out of your ears. i think you better go to bed mate.
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Jodi_the_g
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No I think euthanasia is the only option for people who can not do a simple task correctly (come to think of it that was the point she started crying when I said that) I mean why should poeple like that claim the dole, its unfair for people who can actually do something of value
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Icy
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yesh 
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Lynny
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yup, also had it where u'v wanted sumone u cant have, but when u do eventually get with them, they aren't what u expected and it just doesnt work out and u end up getting more hurt
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Blade_sri
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or seeing someone u love with someone else!!!!
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Originally posted by Kayleigh
has got to be knowing u can't have someone you love. anyone ever been there?
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Nath
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quote:
Originally posted by Kayleigh
has got to be knowing u can't have someone you love. anyone ever been there?
Been there!! Not very nice at all. Especially when they are going out with an absolute TWAT!!!
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Mav 3000
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Im in the exact same situation - and it stinks. Its probably the worst feeling I've ever experienced; breaking up with my ex and then the person I'm in love with now won't be with me.
She was with a lad who's spent his entire life on the dole, he binge drnks when his money comes through with his lad frineds, while she stays in alone. He'll see her when he's poor.
He smokes, smokes weed, and takes cocaine.
Early this year we were texting while she was at uni (she's on for a 1st and is so kind and brainy) - that weekend he surpises her by coming up and proposing to her. She says yes.
A week later he fcuks a girl in his bed, and says to her he "did it cos he missed her".
He pulled her, chatted her up, kissed, sex, the lot. she can't bring herself to be with him like that again but he comes over and makes her let him stay over (hes got no car, no buses etc). He came round unnanounced when she was ill, and last week when she wasn't seeing him, he faked suicide to get her round his - she, still thinking he's perfect, looks afterhim for 2 days. she just can't see how he manipulates her. he brainwashes her everytime he's with her.
Now, she won't leave him, she won't take my advice or tell her frineds and family the truth about him, she pretends he's perfect when he isn't and lets her family think so too. she still sees him, refuses to see me and simply won't leave him, even though she's known me for three years (him 18 months) and she says she loves me.
We talk for ages, all night sometimes, text constantly, she loves me, I know it, she tells me every day, and wehn we talk things are perfect, but she won't leave the coke-head-loser who's cheated on her - maybe out of pity, charity, I don't know, but it's the worst feeling in the world because were the most compatible couple I've ever ever known - we 'click' in every way, but she won't leave him.
Anyone beat that?
[Edited on 31-08-2003 by Mav 3000]
[Edited on 31-08-2003 by Mav 3000]
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Mav 3000
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BTW Has anyone got any advice on how I can win her over (I'm not giving up!) I she dumped him over 14 weeks ago, tried leaving him 3 times now but everytime, he forces himself round (ie by faking death! like last time) so she relapses. She just can't see that she's only doing this cos she's not over him.
She cuts me out instead of him, favours seeing him to me every time. She's the nicest girl I've ever known, but she's so stupid - she just can't see in a few months time she'll be over this loser.
She says if I go and visit her (shes over 100 miles away!!) then she won't see me - what can I do? this has been going on since May. She's left him 3 times, but eveerytime she gives in cos he's a druggie and is suicidal and uses this threat to manipulate her. He's fine, we know, but she doesn't wan t abandon him cos hes such a loser drop-out - hes the scum of the earth he really is what he does.
she still believes they can 'work' and it will be what she needs and wants, but even though i make her laugh, have fun, talk for ages etc, she just won't break free. It makes me feel sick the thought of her with him after what he's done.
[Edited on 31-08-2003 by Mav 3000]
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Gaz
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im in this postion right now i split with my ex well over a year now we was togherther for something like 16 months i truly love her to bits .. but she is just not interested my life is on hold for somebody that dosnt like me
i have tryed to get over her so many times but i can relate anything and everything to her witch brings her back in to my head i think i need help or somert lol
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Adam-D
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quote:
Originally posted by Kayleigh
has got to be knowing u can't have someone you love. anyone ever been there?
am there now
fookin shit
not gonna type ne more.
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Nath
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RE: everyone saying am there now.............Does the other person know about how u feel or dont u wanna risk ruining a friendship by telling them if they dont feel the same way?
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Adam-D
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other person does know how i feel she is with someone
and she said c what the future holds.......
duno ow to take that
i hope its a good thing
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Nath
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^^^^^^^^^^^
Am there now mate!!
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Mav 3000
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Im there now and have been all summer. she knows about it because we talk every night, some mornings, some afternoons too. She just won't take the final step, scared of chage, hurting his feelings even tho he cheated on her.
She says "even though he takes cocaine" he's still a nice person and she won't judge him. She says hes nice to be with, even though the thought of him fcuking this other girl haunts her. She thinks he's the best she can do and she won't see me to know any different. She likes his company - Even though she doesn't drink, smoke or do anything bad at all, he doesn't take her out, meals, films, concerts, anything - they just sit in all the time talking, cos he's drank all his money away with his mates.
[Edited on 31-08-2003 by Mav 3000]
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Nath
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Its a sad state of affairs
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Drew
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quote:
Originally posted by Nath
RE: everyone saying am there now.............Does the other person know about how u feel or dont u wanna risk ruining a friendship by telling them if they dont feel the same way?
yes they know very much
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Adam-D
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sod it am gunna phone her
she is luvvly
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Drew
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mav mate - just read that and it is pretty bad, hope it all turns out for the best for ya
im sure if i started typing here, i could type about 5 times as much as u have, and be just as bad, but i aint even gunna start
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Nath
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quote:
Originally posted by Drew
mav mate - just read that and it is pretty bad, hope it all turns out for the best for ya
im sure if i started typing here, i could type about 5 times as much as u have, and be just as bad, but i aint even gunna start
Yeh same as me. Plus people i know use this website so i dont wanna say too much.
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Mav 3000
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If I get enough support here saying how daft she is then I'll email her this thread address. Nothing else is getting through. I've known her since she was 16, thru GCSE's, A-Levels and now Uni.
She just can't see past his emotional manilupation to see how maybe - just maybe, I can be better for her than him - Im identical to her as a person, we want the same things.
She doesn't half do my head in! Everytime she tries to cut me out our qualities just bring us closer again.
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Adam-D
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me too^^^
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Drew
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dont think we need to say how daft she is - from wot u wrote its pretty obvious that she can do ALOT better than this other lad
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Mav 3000
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Cheers Drew. Felt better gettin it all out - and judging by the life experience on this forum I think I can get some good advice.
I'll show her the link anyhoo. Mates don't use this forum, she's anon so it'll be ok.
Its been like this for 14 weeks now, she's left him 3 times, got back with him 3 times. Were closer than ever (if thats possible) via phone and text so I'll see how it pans out.
Why are girls in this situation so stupid? you hear about things like this all the time
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Adam-D
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he uses cocaine!
what a pillock
cant belive she's still wiv im....
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