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barry_kellett99 |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 15:29 |
I hope I can | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 15:26 |
good good mate. Stick with her. :) | |
barry_kellett99 |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 15:24 |
Mine texted me there at lunch time, she isnt well (flu) so im putting it down to that and just giving time... | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 15:20 |
Kinda harsh positiojn to be in barry. | |
barry_kellett99 |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 13:10 |
My head is also fucked and i only have had 2 months, feel sorry for you mate with your 4 and half years... I dont know what to do.... I texted her this morning and no reply?? So do I just leave it to her to reply in her own time? And if yes, for how long? | |
BigSte |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 12:11 |
I split with my GF on sunday after 4 and a half years. hurts like mad, can't get her out my head. We have been 2gether since 3rd year at secondary school and have been through all sorts together. | |
barry_kellett99 |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 09:27 |
My GF is at uni in edinburgh, and we have only been going out 2 months (1 month here at home) and we agreed to keep it going when she is away... Although I was over last weekend and I have never been in any number of relationships and never met anyone i really wanted... and Therefore I have no track record of emotions and stuff and I was struggling to come to terms with all my feelings.... long and short of it is I basically told her I think i am falling in love with her | |
mav |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 07:57 |
Something deffo bothering her and maybe just taking it out on you...Try and let her cool down a bit.....Give her a few days space. | |
ajscorsa |
posted on 16th Oct 03 at 07:27 |
in the words of munchie, just bum her lad!!! | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:27 |
cheers fella :) al give it a try :) ta | |
Craig W |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:23 |
I know how you feel, i'm the same. I want to sort problems/arguments out there and then, i hate waiting and giving time... but... it really is the best thing in some cases, although you may feel better in yourself for ringing her etc, she'll probably see it as you pestering her - because of the frame of mind she's already in. | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:22 |
cheers mate, most appreciated :) | |
whitter45 |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:17 |
thats what i mean mate. they ask for space and sh*t but really they want u there and as soon as ur not they throw it back in ur face. best bet is to see her face to face if u can and talk it over. Good Luck fella | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:14 |
without a doubt, good advice bud, ta :) | |
Craig W |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:14 |
quote: lol my missus is the same, i used to bite back and try and argue my case and prove she was wrong, which led to more arguments. Now ive learned to let it go over my head, bite my lip and stop arguments before they begin. To be honest i think deep down they know they're wrong sometimes, they just like the last word. A womans pride is a funny thing. | |
whitter45 |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:09 |
good advice Craig W. like u say 3 years is along time and u both have probably been through alot together so it will probably take something huge to split u up. Give her time and space cos thats what she is sayin she wants,. but u know what women are like they normally mean the opposite to what they are saying if u know what i maen | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:09 |
Cheers folks for helping me out here. | |
Craig W |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:06 |
She's having a tough time at the mo, but it doesn't give her the right to take it out on you. 3 years is a long time, and i can gurantee you she won't throw it all away over fishing. Hopefully she'll realise she's in the wrong, time is a good healer mate. Give her time. | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:06 |
nah am not going to do anything to jeapordise "us", but the thing is.... shes basically in the house with her son 24/7 for this year... so she doesnt particularly get free time to think about me! | |
whitter45 |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:04 |
just bare with it mate. all women are the same. my gf has said this a couple of times to me like '.. its over just don't bother ringing me again....' so i don't and she ends up ringing me back a day or 2 later. | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:03 |
but the thing is..... i'm almost positive that she didnt mean it. (talking from experience :lol:)... but it still fucks me up. | |
corsa_godfather |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 23:00 |
unlucky m8. | |
-Aliba- |
posted on 15th Oct 03 at 22:57 |
Woman AGAIN! |